WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME?? HELP IM AFRAID!

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Quaresma, Mar 9, 2018.

  1. Quaresma

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    Im now for 3,5 month on nofap! 3,5 month no PMO. I didnt watch porn and also didnt masturbate andalso didnt orgasmed with masturbation!

    I dont get morningwoods anymore and my penis also seems smaller??
    Whats wrong? Im Afraid!! Any advice please??
     
  2. jorg78

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    It's normal. It's your brain rewiring, be patient.
     
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  3. Quaresma

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    Serious?? Is it normal that my penis now is smaller??
     
  4. jorg78

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    I believe so. I think that the penis gets smaller because it's retracting itself due to harming/beating your dick for a long time and it starts to heal. No, I don't have any proof of this. It's just a theory.
     
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  5. Quaresma

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    And you think after rewire it wil return to the normal format that i used to have?
     
  6. Quaresma

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    What do you mean?
     
  7. Stop looking at the big picture. Stop thinking about anything related to PMO. No reason to overreact about penis size. One day at a time means one day at s time. One step at a time. Once you start to live your life without thinking about your penis you will start to live within worry.
     
  8. Quaresma

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    Yes i know wat you mean! But what i mean is that when i was PMOing my penis was bigger.. now he seems much smaller in rest ans also in erection..
     
  9. Mark65

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    Unfortunately it is. Just as normal as it will be in future that it will be huge like you're used to.
     
  10. Quaresma

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    I dont had a huge penis in the past..
    A normal size, but now my erections are less hard en it seems smaller..
    What can i do you think? And how long it will take to rewire to my normal size? And last question why it becomes small during a reboot??
    Thanks alot man!
     
  11. Quaresma

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    Anybody else advice?
     
  12. Clean Plate

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    Why are you getting hard in the first place( unless with a partner)!? You won’t always have morning wood btw (unless you have some kind of disorder). As for penis size maybe you should measure, you might be exaggerating bruh.
     
  13. Our bodies are amazing instruments. They have a natural tendency to seek balance and equilibrium. You need to give your body time to adjust. As counterintuitive as this seems, your own stress about the situation could be impacting it. What other environmental factors are at play? Are you drinking? Drugs? (Don't answer, just consider these). Anything else? Are you exercising? drinking water?

    It also depends on your age. I'm 43, and my equipment is definitely not how it was at 19 years old.

    You need to give yourself a chance to heal, and give yourself some space to learn how to be awesome. When you have your confidence back, your manhood will return too.

    Just stick to the plan.
     
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  14. Also, you need to start measuring the value of your life in another way... not the size of your penis. Look back to why you started this in the first place... and measure that. Measure how far you've come. Maybe if you see your life value measured in another way, you will have more confidence, and nature will restore what you are looking for.
     
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  15. Quaresma

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    Thanks bro!
     
  16. NewDrug

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    Take it easy my man :) I'm guessing you're young and I understand, as a male, getting freaked out when ANYTHING happens to your penis, but you're fine. You need to stop thinking in such literal terms like "when will I rewire back to normal?". There is definitely a healing process that happens in the brain when you abstain from PMO and bodily changes as well, but it's subtle and nuanced - any permanent changes take place over extended periods of time. I notice a lot of younger guys on here talking about it like it's a video game, moving further and further away from the actual physiological explanations and delving deeper into the pseudoscience that these forums can breed. Incredibly intelligent people who study these things for a living aren't totally in agreement as to what brain changes take place or why, let alone a massive group of pre-teen boys feeding each other half-baked theories. In summary - you're freaking yourself out over nothing. You know and I know that moving away from compulsively watching porn and masturbating will be good for your body and mind - I don't know why your penis seems smaller than usual but I don't think it's porn that keeping it bigger and, if there actually was a physical reaction to stopping, I'm sure you're body will revert back to normal.
     
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  17. Quaresma

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    Thanks a lot! Im 26 by the way haha
     
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  18. dragonaire

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    It's known as a "flatline" around here. It has to do with a lowering of Testosterone due to the time you were abstaining. Dont worry, in short time the sex drive will be back with a vengeance
     
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  19. NewDrug

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    You're welcome, and I'm 33 so, to me, you are a young guy :) I meant no offense btw.
     
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