I've never watched porn in my life, so at least I have that going for me. I have had quite a bad habit though, multiple times a day for a few years. What gets me off is fantasising of a "Perfect Self": genius, gorgeous, ripped, rich, sex god playboy Gittir who can do anything and is loved by everyone. I've spent so much time fantasising about that that I've done basically nothing to work towards it. Can anyone else relate?
So u have jerked off fantasizing about ur perfect self? Who knows bro, maybe you wired urself for success, stop fapping to build energy and power and who knows what will happen!
It's called instant gratification. I can fap to believing myself being a deity but I won't make me a deity. Only actions will reap rewards. Words and thoughts may move us into action but where there's no action there will be no outcome, nothing. Not fapping is still 'nothing'. You just stopped an action that with a negative outcome. You just stopped hurting yourself. instead of -1 + 0 the equation became 0 + 0. If you do not take "positive" action nothing positive will happen in your life. if you don't do things that are +1 you will never become +1 There's only three different things, three different actions in life -1 0 +1 And all these numbers summed up together amount to who we are. Hitting the gym +1 Going to a party and get along with people +1 Studying +1 Fapping / PMOing -1 Surfing on nofap aimlessly 0 Watching youtube videos for fun 0 Watching youtube videos late into night, which results in bad sleep and sleeping in -1 now, not all 0es and 1es are equal, that's just a general direction. But you can't expect to become 'perfect' if your actions are imperfect.
