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I failed 4 times.

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by ChemicalProblem, Feb 12, 2018.

  1. ChemicalProblem

    ChemicalProblem Fapstronaut

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    Im getting so many urges to watch porn and i dream about it most of the time can someone help me?

    Here's the dates:
    NoFap first try 11-12-2017 Relapsed at 20 days
    NoFap 2nd try 01-01-2018 Relapsed at 10 days
    NoFap 3rd try 11-01-2018 Relapsed at 22 days
    NoFap 4th try 03-02-2018 Relapsed at 8 days
    NoFap 5th try 11-02-2018 i dont want to relapse again
     
  2. Fightthedevil

    Fightthedevil Fapstronaut

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    Man Don't Worry! These are pretty good abstinence periods and would definitely have helped your healing. We all fail. Hell Ive been failing to reach 30+ days since 8 months now. But Somehow we still are doing ourselves good by abstaining for those small periods. Our PMO/Per month frequency decreases that means we are progressing!
     
  3. Ongoingsupport

    Ongoingsupport Fapstronaut

    Looks like you started back up again every time, that counts for a lot.

    Say what does your name indicate though? Are you also dealing with a substance issue?
     
  4. ChemicalProblem

    ChemicalProblem Fapstronaut

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    There is a non-existent band named Pisshead it's made for the game Life is Strange Before The Strom They made a song named Nothin wrong and the first 2 words are Chemical problem and at that time i was trying to make a nickname so thats the story. I dont have any problems besides porn and maybe some other things.
     
  5. devinheppy82

    devinheppy82 Fapstronaut

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    Failure is part of being human. don’t put yourself down when you fail, instead, get back up and try again. Do your best and work hard, and you can reach your goals no matter how small those goals can be.
     
  6. Andrea1986

    Andrea1986 Fapstronaut

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    Don't worry, as someone else said failure is part of human being. I failed a lot of times, even after 5 months of NoFap, but I keep trying hoping not to fall again in PMO! Now I'm on day 2 I guess...
     
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  7. I failed dozens of times, relapse is just part of the process. As long as you keep trying it will eventually work out
     
  8. Make sure you are learning why you failed each time. Where were you weak? What were you looking at? How were you feeling? Try to learn from these things and implement strategies to either prevent them or deal with them as they come up next time.

    Good luck!
     
  9. Sometimes you win, sometimes you learn. The only failure is never trying again.
     
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  10. TheLoneWoolf

    TheLoneWoolf Fapstronaut

    What if you are gonna win in the next one?
    Never give up
     
  11. PhotinoZ

    PhotinoZ Fapstronaut

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    Hello, I failed, this is my first visit back to Nofap in a long while, although I have been trying, through therapy and joining a men’s group; to work through my porn addiction. This was the first thread that I clicked on it and was inspired by the positive attitude put forth by the respondees.

    Keeping a journal of failures is key, by letting it slip, I feel that I would be giving up, in my personal experience.
     
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