No arousal

First of all... Don't freakout Brother. That's completely normal. Stay cool.

Second, you can still be in flatline. It's very possible to complete that 90-day reboot and still haven't be completely cured.
I suggest that you give yourself more time and just wait your natural arousal to kick in. I know this is probably something you didn't want to hear, but it's still my suggestion. Also, if you're starting to freakout, you could pay visit to a doctor just to make sure there's nothing physiologically wrong with you and to calm you down.

I've been where you are right now, and let me tell you, your sex drive will return to it's normal state. It might take some time, but eventually you'll get there.

Stay strong and away from porn!

- Mike

 

You're welcome Brother

In my experience it's best not to test ones erection or sex drive during rebooting. Try to focus on everything else in life than sex. I know how alarming that feels when you have absolutely NO SEX DRIVE whatsoever, but trust me, it goes with the territory and there's absolutely nothing to be worry about.

Having said that... Stop using porn and testing your erection. I really mean it. It only slows your rebooting and makes you more anxious. However tempting that might feel, just don't do it. Take a cold shower instead. Or go for a walk. Do some push ups. Do something physical to distract your thoughts from sex.

Life is so much more than sex. Learn to enjoy your life and try to become better version of yourself every day.

- Mike

 

Yeah, I agree with @Mike Bonanno that this could be flatlining. I know when I've been in that state, I've had no appetite for sex or fapping. When I've relapsed, I've immediately gone in the complete opposite direction almost immediately. Sounds normal to me.

 

Yuup!
You're in flatline. I suggest you abstain from anything sexual at least 30 days and then try to have sex with your woman, and I believe you'll start to notice some improvements.

 

im in a similar situation. 20 days in, with a few videos watched in the latter few days but i got an erection for a little bit during sex... but we tried a lot.

there is progress.

 

It's normal, it can take a while for it to return.

 

I’m 29 days in no PMO and am in exact same boat as you dude.
No urges/no sexual desire but as the other guys have said I believe it will come back! Just a matter of time!
I am 100% flatlining but that’s ok, I know it’s part of the process. Just keep going dude, good luck!

 

Hey dude! I could up until before Christmas, like I could get it up but would only be like 60%-70% hard and my orgasms were so poor, didn't feel good at all. I think I've been suffering from Death grip because my penis felt so desensitized!

 

If you're really concerned, that's never a bad idea - just in case you have something else going on. If you doc is on top of things, he should understand the issues associated with the addiction.

I guess are bodies are just weirder than we think. You'd think that someone who jacked off multiple times a day would go absolutely nuts in wanting to fap if they withdrew from doing it. Yet many of us have no desire to whatsoever. Weird. But understanding this does ease the mind when it happens.

 

I was addicted to porn for 35 years. More specifically, PMO, as I didn't really need porn to get off, but I typically used it. Today, I have removed porn from my life, but can PMO to stuff in my head or that I might see on tv.

I have PIED. In the past few sessions of attempted sex, my dick is between nothing, and a moderate hard-on that doesn't last. I STOP if I am not 100% concentrating on my wife. If I fantasize in my head, no problem getting hard. But I no longer do that with her in the bed. It's not fair to either of us.

When I have edged (which I did a couple of days ago), it was very 'tame' if you will. I didn't get hard for a while and then it wasn't anything to write home about. Hopefully that means I'm losing a taste for the fake stuff.

 

Don’t give up the good fight.