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First Post Here - Just Ready To Be Done With This

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by ThePeaceful_warrior, Feb 4, 2018.

  1. ThePeaceful_warrior

    ThePeaceful_warrior Fapstronaut

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    New here and looking for some help getting porn out of my life for good. I am a 31 year old male, married with one young kid. Been watching porn for almost half my life. Really sad to type that.

    I have always known porn was a bit of a problem but 10 years ago every professional in the world was talking about how harmless it was. I figured all guys just watch porn and it is normal.

    I recently was unable to have sex with my hot and very willing wife only to find my self effortlessly jerking off in the bathroom a couple hours later with phone in hand. What have I done to myself? So sad.

    Anyway I'm looking for any help I can get and to let everyone know that I will be putting this behind me.
     
  2. GeeWhizz

    GeeWhizz Fapstronaut

    Hi @ThePeaceful_warrior

    Welcome to the community of NoFapsters! If you are serious about stopping you have come to a very good place.

    Get involved, read read read journals, guides. get yourself immersed in the community. this i have found to be very important. Connect with other users, chat with them and generally feel at home here. This is your lifeline. Virtual buddies and, if you want, accountability partners. It's all anonymous, safe and proven (if the testimony of hundreds before us can be relied upon).

    You have much work to do, but don't despair, you will enjoy it. The reward is priceless.
    Hope to see you soon on the journals and challenges.

    If you need any help, just ask. Really.
     
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  3. (ツ)

    (ツ) Fapstronaut

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  4. We are here with the same problem.. strength in numbers.
     
  5. ThePeaceful_warrior

    ThePeaceful_warrior Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for the support. I look forward to getting involved. Seems like an amazing community here.
     
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  6. (ツ)

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    I have started out yesterday, first day was a breeze (no urges)but since the past 3 hours (nighttime) intermittent urges have plagued me, nonetheless, I shall continue!
     
  7. Hey @ThePeaceful_warrior ,

    Welcome to NoFap. Reading other peoples journals is a big part of my program and one of the ways I "work it".

    I just read the greatest journal entry. I don't offer opinions or advice, only ESH (Experience, Strength and Hope).

    I wish I could write the way he does. To me it felt like he opened up his chest and let us see not only into his heart but deeper into his soul. It takes a few minutes to read the first two posts - but, I'm so glad that I did.

    The journal is at https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/155372 and was written by @weddingnails .

    Keep coming back it works if you work it,

    * L
     
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