DAY 7: HERE I AM AGAIN

So here I am again Day 7. This time around it has been quite easy for me. Following my last relapse session I told myself that I am never going to defeat this addiction if I don't grow a pair and say no to porn. Porn is not the problem here its me. I have been relapsing for so long because I didn't want to say no. The temptations were just too damn urging because I was letting them be urging. See all I have done this week is just not think about porn and well its been great! I haven't had any major battles this week. I am sure there will be some in the future, which I know I can handle. I have done this many times and have never gotten past about 10 days but this time will be different. I feel so confident in myself that I believe that I can do this and I will do this. If you are still struggling with relapsing please take my advice. Now this wont be easy but remember its for the better.

These are what I call the 3 RULES TO SUCCESS! Follow them and you will raise your chances of succeeding.

1. PREVENTION
The main key to being successful at defeating porn is prevention of relapsing. What I did was I literally cut myself off from sites where I could access porn. I set up a security password that I would forget so that in the event that I would be tempted to watch some pornos I couldn't because I don't remember the password. I installed K9 protection on my laptop. It works great the only problem I have with it is that it wont let me get onto the WiFi on campus. I also downloaded a safe search browser (Firefox) on my phone and I enabled the add ons. The add on's is like a strict parental guidance app.

2. DISTRACTIONS
Fill up your day with as many events as you can so that you will not have time to watch porn.

3. DONT THINK ABOUT OR LOOK AT ANYTHING SEXUAL
Sorry guys, that does unfortunately mean girls. I know, its normal for us dudes to want to look at women but hey trust me this technique work. It will clean your mind and relieve you from those devious sexual thoughts. All you have to do is just not comment if a girl looks cute or not. Its so easy. This is coming from someone who struggled with always trying to find that one insanely hot girl everywhere he went. So if I can do it so can you.

FINALLY THE BENEFITS!!!!!!!!!!!!
- My confidence levels have risen dramatically.
- I have become more determined.
- I am defiantly a lot happier!

So now onto week 2! Good luck to everyone out there. Remember you are not alone and you can totally do this!

 

All I have to say is NEVER give up. Look I was in your shoes for years. In fact I am just getting out of those shoes. I have had attempts where I have gone 10 days and there have been times where I couldn't even go a week. But I never gave up. I first started fighting this back in the summer of 2016. I have failed so many times and after the last one I really thought to myself. If I really wanted to defeat porn then I would have done it by now. I mean its a me problem. I have to be willing to say no every single time. So then I made the CONCIOUS decision to stop watching porn FOREVER. Well since then I have been doing great. Look at me I am on day 8 and aside from today I haven't had any big battles. I am always on alert for them but I also don't think about it because I have found if you think about sexual things or even how many days you have gone without porn you will fail its guaranteed. You can do it bro! Wish you the best.