Please help me to stop going to a asian massage parlor

Use the panic button bro.

 

Hey Man,
I had chance to discuss talk with one of asian massage masseuse. As i also addcited to fap(i never did with masseuse). So i asked her " do you enjoy act of giving handjob"?. She said "No, Never. I dont have any other option to earn and have responsabilités so i am into this profession but when somebody gives me money to perform handjob. I am feeling helplessness." I saw her teared eyes.

DO YOU REALLY STILL WANT TO TAKE ADAVANTAGE OF HELPLESSNESS? I HOPE YOU GOT YOUR ANSWER BY YOURSELF.

 

Your mugshot will look great in the paper when the vice squad busts the place. Might even show up on FB, Insta, etc.

 

I met a girl which used to work in a massage parlour, I never knew that she worked there, she was divorced and very poor she had a young daighter, she does handjobs for money. And I was so close to her but eventually she tried to dig me and dumped me cos she found someone who gives her money
Do you really wanna do that?

 

Don't do it m8. How can it be better/different than masturbation? There will be no emotional attachment at all. It will leave you in the same bad state as fapping would. Or even worse you will lose money! Think about it. Literally, best advice I can give you is to distract yourself somehow. Perhaps immerse yourself into a Video Game you love, find a TV-Show that can keep you busy, Browse NoFap. There is always something.

 

she doesn't know you, after you walk out of the door, you are nobody for her.
you are paying someone to take your bullshit.
she may seems to like it, she doesn't.
you may get a sense of success and "own" someone", but really, you don't.
just seat there doing nothing while you feel you are dying if not release.
I'm sure after 2 hours, or even after you watch comedy movie, you will be ok, or even relaxed and glad nothing happens to you.
besides, after you are done, you probably gonna feel like shit, and next time around you are facing the same thing anyway, next time won't get easier.
show your mind who's the boss, not let your mind determine what you do, YOU decide what to do.

 

Many Asian massage parlors are notorious for sex trafficking vulnerable young women/girls from Southeast Asia and China through gangs. They DO NOT want to be there and are literally sex slaves. You do not want to support this shit.

 

1: ask yourself: what kind of man you want to be.
2. ask yourself: is going to an asian massage parlor, getting you nearer that man or further away?

 

back when I used to go, I hand to MO when I got back home any way. doing it my self was more satisfying.