I need your advice: Several days ago I met a person that I like very much we have been dating a couple of times, the problem is that I am sure that there will be relationships very soon, I have been 17 days of no PMO not to do in case the situation arises . what should I do? to have relationships or refuse the fact and avoid it at all costs?
Why you started nofap in the first place? I would say go for it: if you really like her, why refuse her? But it depends from your situation.
I think if you like her, plan to be honest within the first two months of dating, and think that your relationship can be a success, take a chance! Two great threads to read given your situation: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/afraid-shell-run-if-she-knew-about-your-pmo.151177/ https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/recovery-can-only-occur-with-absolute-honesty.142274/
thank you very much, i really like it and i will risk it i hope everything goes well, i thank you your help was important to me.
I started nofap because I was already tired of the same routine as always, watching porn and masturbating every day 3-4 times or more, that was no longer life for me besides I have PIED. Take the decision of not PMO which includes no orgasms during this challenge I think that having an orgasm I feel as if I have lost the challenge and that depresses me. I really like it and I would like to have a stable relationship with this person, I do not know how to react and I can fulfill it completely.
One of the aim of NoFap is to have natural and healthy relationships with real people. So avoiding them to do a perfect reboot seem nonsense to me. But someone also think that having an O can slow down the reboot. And I have to add, from experience, that having intercourses during a reboot is kind of weird... You really don't know what will happen down there. Still, I will not miss the chance to stay with a person you really like. Consider talking to her about this.
That's what I want to have relationships with real people and not with a cold screen, it makes me very nervous to have relationships yet I do not know how to react to it I hope everything goes well, I appreciate your advice. regards.
You're getting ahead of yourself. Are you in a long-term committed relationship right now? No! So take a breath and enjoy getting to know this girl!
