Out of my league...?

At the time of writing this message, I have just reached 8 days without PMO. Quite good for me, by the way.

What I've noticed is that my confidence has greatly improved these past few days. It's increased so much that I am not afraid to talk to and flirt with girls that I though were previously out of my league.

For the past ten years, I've been addicted to PMO, and it's obvious when I think about it. All these examples I can think of where I have failed to connect with real women, because I haven't had the right frame of mind.

But now, this confidence boost has made me realize that it's just an illusion.

I thought that flirting was something I couldn't do or understand, but now I see that it's easy when your intention is to establish a genuine connection with a real woman.

There is a certain lady I have in mind that I recently believed was beyond me, but now I have hope that I can get somewhere with her.

 

Yeah, it really is that easy. All this time I wasted...

 

I think part of it is the feeling of accomplishment I get after a few days.

I also think that it's because I feel more attracted to girls, and genuinely want to attract them.

The flirting is natural in this confident state. I don't have to think about it, it just flows.

But before, I had to think about what to say to girls, that would never work. I don't have to prepare anymore, it just happens when I am in that confident mood.

I really believe that nofap gives me more confidence, and that is when I flirt with them.

But it has to be honest for me, it's not just some girl that I am chatting to, I genuinely want to be with them. Nofap clears my mind and I just feel like I'm in a better place. I think that's what's attractive to girls, that kind of self love.

Hope that answers your questions.