did you ever find yourself having to just leave your house to avoid it? do you advice i stop talking to people i currently sexualize now? like i know i could do much better if i stayed away from certain people
Yeah, letting go of that pressure to perform is really relaxing! Just don’t try to achieve anything and focus on interacting. Glad I could help!
Hey man! In my case my problem was actually lack of interaction with people I could be sexual with. I did talk a lot with people over skype and I was very sexual there, even though it was not strictly porn the experience was very similar. In the end I focused myself in making real interactions a priority. If it was though a screen it was not allowed for me. I don’t thing having sex is bad at all, the idea of the reboot for me was having healthy sexual relationships. But if you feel these people don’t help in the reboot just take some time away from them. And yeah, staying at home, specially alone was the biggest problem. I work out, and lately I’ve been focusing on visiting friends or getting to know new places in the city I live in.
Thanks bro, we are different in our mind set but our goal is the same. I will keep on coming to your thread to ask questions hope you will help out. Keep pushing bro
Wonderful post! I got rid of a strong urge caused by anxiety reading this! I'm still afraid of social interaction, but I'm relieved having no sexual goals helps the process. Thanks a lot and keep going, all the best!
Nice post brother My biggest problem is that I am very uncomfortable speaking to new people or basically people who are not already my friend(especially girls). My mind goes kind of blank, otherwise I can go on for hours with my friends. If by any chance you had the same issue, how did you overcome it? Thanks in advance, and goodluck for the future!
Thanks man! I’m glad you found it useful! Keep pushing forward and stay aware man! Come back into nofap If you need more help or feel anxious! I whish you the best! Thanks man, that means a lot to me, I’m glad I could help!
Hey man, I had a lot of trouble with that! I was always thinking about what should I be saying or what could I have said. Maybe I saw a girl and thought, “what if I could have sex with her”. After this talking about anything was impossible. I was thinking too far ahear. Relaxing about my sex life and letting go of the need for impressing or picking up a woman allowed me to speak naturally. If I didn’t have anything to say y simply didn’t say anything. But sometimes you do have to make an effort and speak out, at least to participate in any simple conversation. Remember to talk about things you enjoy or like to talk about. You dont have to come up with something the other person will like. It’s impossible to read someone’s mind like that. Hope this helps! Wish you the best man!
haha sorry about that, I'm used to the male audience here. Thanks for the support girl! Keep that streak going!
Best post that i have ever read on this forum since i joined.. truly motivational and inspiring to continue with nofap and get rid of PMO curse from my life