I think masturbation , and porn is a big reason why men and women no longer can have valuable long term relationships, and no wants to get married. Based on what I'm seeing a lot of women who are deemed as being "sluts" or "loose" have been sexually abused or became sexually active at a young age. I want women to be involved to in the forum to show what can us men do to make us more desirable so you don't have to go to porn, and we don't either.
I don't like the fact the chilvary is dead , and people don't realize how unhealthy sex can be both mentally, and physically when not done right.
If everyone could just understand that when you enter a relationship, most are for potential long term mates and should be treated as so, and it that is the case, be open and vulnerable. If you can't be yourself and be open and vulnerable that should be an indication that you need to either build more with that person on a deeper level, or you need to move on. And not everything has to revolve around sex. We live in such a sex driven time, be the guy who wants more. Yeah, sex is great, but once you are done having sex, then what? Build true relations in a relationship, and create intimacy outside of sex. Be intimate with her soul, mind, spirit, and everything else will just flow.
Well as a man I think us men need to start being men. What kind of a man would rather masturbate to nasty porn than bond with a loving partner that they respect, value and love. We only degrade ourselves and the meaning of what it is to be a man by doing these immoral acts. A sexual relationship is proper only on the ground of the highest values one can find in a human being. Sex must not be anything other than a response to values. And that is why promiscuity is immoral. Not because sex is evil, but because sex is too good and too important to toss around casually... And furthermore men need to stop abusing women...
Absolutely I agree we watch this filth, and then blame our women for us being unhappy simply because of sex. People should realize sex is a bonus
