Racial Theories and Nofap

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Gladiator, Apr 23, 2014.

  1. Gladiator

    Gladiator Banned

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    The past weeks I've had hard time going through nofap without relapsing just like couple of my other friends, except one of them.

    His name is Eric and his from Denmark.

    When I asked him how he made 60+ days without fapping while my friends and I have hard time passing more than a week he explained that is was because he was "racially pure" and since I'm of mixed European blood it means I have a harder time to be sexually disciplined.

    Could race and nationality play a role in nofap? I have hard time believing it but he sounded very convinced when he talked about it so I thought it was worth posting it here and see what rest of the community is thinking about this.
     
  2. No!
    More like the people og Denmark are a very socailly structured people as a whole and this makes the mental adjustment easier or them.

    Just try to stay pure one day at a time not 30 or 60 days because the goal is really on a moment to moment basis where you have to make decisions to keep away rom porn or stop as soon as you get a bit aroused befor you masturbate and berak you weeks freedom... Want accountability? Write me...
    For now I'll just say,

    "Look, you know you want to quit masturbation. If it was a simple as turning off a switch you would do it. But it feels good and you nee to understand your triggers. so for right now, know that if you want to masturbate, you can but it is a decision you are making and try to see what comes before you give in. What is it that starts the trip to being a masturbator. When you discover what leads you there you might be able to catch yourself better next time. I think you are here visiting the no porn/masturbation website to get over this so you don't take it into your relationships and you are right to make that difficult decision an to even try to give it up.
    I commend you. now take one more step to become accountable and to get a couple people on here that are sort of in the same situation, an look to them for help when you need it and write them BEFORE you give in for encouragement not after to say how dissappointed you are an we will be here for you.
     
  3. JJnofap

    JJnofap Fapstronaut

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    It could either mean he was less addicted than your other friends or maybe he even has a lower sex drive. Or maybe he just is more disciplined and/or has better alternatives to fapping to keep him busy.

    Easier to give up fapping because of being racially pure?...no that is a really shitty reason
     
  4. MelancholyWeightlifter

    MelancholyWeightlifter Distinguished Fapstronaut

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    European countries are some of the most sexually loose countries on Earth. Denmark has an age of consent of 15...
     
  5. MrMeakle

    MrMeakle Fapstronaut

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    If you simply consider european history, how often they fought conquered and rebelled against each other, there really isn't such a thing as "pure" european. There's been so much spreading of culture, religion and people between the european nations that they're as pure as chocolate milk.

    Signed,
    Mr. Meakle
     
    Last edited: Apr 23, 2014
  6. MelancholyWeightlifter

    MelancholyWeightlifter Distinguished Fapstronaut

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  7. MillwallMatters

    MillwallMatters Fapstronaut

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    there is no such thing as race. it's a social construct that means nothing.
     
  8. salvage

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    Yeah, the whole race thing is just a barrier to quitting PMO when in reality all of our brains look the same and work the same. So if your friend is having success it must be something he is doing differently no his racial composition.