Not totally sure if this website is for me. I don't watch porn and I find it harmful to my relationships when I am with a man who does. I just want to better understand the scientific reasons why watching porn is unhealthy. I certainly don't feel like it builds a strong relationship between a couple and all my friends say I am crazy for expecting my future man to respect me and not watch porn.
It's important for both of you to understand just how destructive porn can be to a relationship. And if it has grown to the level of addiction then it can be as harmful as having a drug addict or alcoholic in the family. Here's a few links depending on how scientific you want to get. Here's the basic ted talks that most of here have watched: Yourbrainonporn.com is another good source of information. Here's a link to the actual studies and their conclusions: https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/rel...l-and-lower-sexual-relationship-satisfaction/
Oh, and the 'Rebooting in a relationship' folder is for both people in a relationship. Significant Others of addicts can find information, advice, and support over there. You are by no means alone.