I have an untypical question for you, guys. Did anyone felt more frequent and stronger infatuation during the reboot? Recently at work I met a really nice and pretty girl. I was surprised that something attracted me so much that I thought about her while working and I’m home. I have not felt anything like this in the case of random girls for a long time and I have always treated it rationally. It's nice for me because it's a stimulus, but at this stage of the reboot it blocks me because sometimes I'm not able to think about something else. Do not get me wrong - I didn’t fall in love, but sometimes I feel too much attraction to this girl. We can also discuss the subject of flirting and dating here. It's probably not bad, right?
For me it wasn't infatuation but I do feel a very strong increase in my attraction with my wife. Not that I wasn't before, it's just much more strong.
I forgot to add that my libido has recently returned. Since then I have felt this type of interest in women.
I'm on the 144th day of my reboot. Generally I’m not doing pmo since October. At that time I was relapsed because of petting and edging with my ex-girlfriend.
good had a scare a couple days ago and sexted with a girl (no pics just dirty talk). If she sent me pics i would have relapsed. I talked to her about it and told her i'm on nofap and she understood. Now i'm extremely thankful i didn't relapse. Any advice for keeping up motivation for nofap? For me, i think i know that i can't afford to go back. There's no future for me if i do. Overall, reboot is going well
You know... for me motivation is the desire for a better life. Pmo caused my experience of reality to get worse. At some point, nothing pleased me. Even many minor unpleasantness caused suicidal thoughts. It was fucking abnormal. I went to college and stayed away from people because I could not find contact with them. At this point everything is improved. Life with pmo is simply terrible for me. I don’t want to come back to it anymore. Back to the topic: What can you say about flirting and dating with women during the reboot? Maybe you have some experiences?