Hello zombie chick, I remember many months ago you helped me a lot and gave me encouragement. I am over 9 months without porn and I'm definitely healing. I see you haven't been on in a while but I was wondering if you would be willing to talk about a few things I am feeling self conscious about and can't seem to get past. If you still access this site would you be willing to talk?
Well, porn would be a step up from prostitutes, but it will definitely diminish your relationship. Good luck in your journey.
I can understand the situation. Porn can destroy many beautiful things in life. I don't know if this may make it better or worse. But there are anti-porn-programs (like one K9 Web Protection) that can be used. It doesn't block porn to 100%, but quite good anyways! To change settings on that program you then need a code that you decided in the installation progress.
And you and your boyfriend can decide that only you can know that code. That way he wont be able to get to Porn sites. I hope it helps alittle.