So on the 1st we had a blowout fight that led to tears on both sides and apologies and promises from him. A few days ago he said he didn't understand at first why it bothered me so much,why I was so hurt,but he gets it. Yesterday he told me it didn't make sense to him how I told him he needed to rewire his brain to RL. But after having sex a few times a week the past few weeks he's understanding that too. He said he was living in a fantasy world when the real world was right here and he was missing out on it. He told me he isn't stopping for just him or me, but for us. Today he got home early from work and stayed out running errands all day until after I got home. He said it was because he was all wound up from the night before with me and didn't want to mess up. He was that tempted. Is this progress at all? I appreciate his honesty and his determination to stay out of the house to make sure he'd stay away, but is it true progress? I'm just worrried. It set me back a little mentally when he said that because we've been sleeping together almost on a daily basis for the past week. Sometimes more than once a day. He knows I'm always open to the idea, his issue seems to be waiting that hour or two.
Uh... Yeah that's progress! He was honest... Check He was aware he was vulnerable, and avoided making it worse... Check He's being intimate with you and sees that as different from porn... Check