Hi Guys, I'm wanting to give up porn. I feel like it is effecting my relationship. i can get off really easy to porn. But when it comes to actual sex I struggle or take ages to actually ejaculate. I'm not sure if this is to do with tight foreskin (I'm working on that too.) I'm going to make it through all of October with no porn, or self masterbating. Is sex still allowed, I hope so! Does anyone have any advice?
Hello climbershiel! Great you are here, that's the most important step, realising you have a problem (as we all do ) I can, or lets say could, relate with you. I also have a girlfriend and was watching a lot of porn, while masturbating. I was also getting of to porn very easy, but it took me very long to ejaculate during real sex. I think i would not have ejaculated without thinking about something else. So I think it has nothing to do with your foreskin. But I have very good news for you I am at Day 48 of no PM now, and I ejaculate so easy while having sex with my girl, even WITHOUT any imagination. It is just an amazing feeling - Keep it up man, it is worth every second, trust me!
Amazing that sounds like where I want to be. Great work on getting to day 48. I think that sounds good, were you still having sex while not watching porn?
Thanks man Yes I still have sex, including orgasm. This will slow down your reboot (as some say) but I don't really care about how fast i will reboot as I don't plan on getting back to PMO anytime But we don't have that many sex like other couples, we do it like 2 times a week
I don't want to get back into PMO. My last one was about three days ago and I felt so sh*t afterwards. I NEED TO CHANGE. I want to enjoy it with my girlfriend!
That was exactly my goal. Finally enjoying it COMPLETELY. Not worrying about ejaculating. Not worrying about getting a boner. Not worrying about my penis staying hard the full act. It will take some time but it will happen Three days is already a good start man. I also felt shit the last times I did PMO, but don't blame yourself. We have a problem - but we are trying to solve it, and this is a good thing!
Welcome to NoFap Climbershiel, you will have a lot of support here. It would be beneficial for you to start your own personal journal in the 20-30 section. Just right down your own thoughts about your progress and over time you will be able to check out how you have progressed. In the main just stay positive and if you relapse don't be hard on yourself, just journal it and then move on. We have all been in the same boat more than once. Good luck. G