I had this problem about 6weeks. It's constainly stopping me toward success. I relaps today at 8:37AM.
I am 27 and have never had one, can't wait for it to happen. Hopefully I'll stay true to my resolve and experience it. From what I've read (and I've read a lot) its totally normal. Your body is changing/ rebooting and this along with mood swings, urges, flatlines etc is just one of the things to happen. I take forever to cum, which is part of the reason I'm here. If you can come without external stimulation, thats already a good sign. Plus its just your body releasing some excess, nothing in way of your success.
I wouldn't consider a wet dream to be a relapse. I have read that wet dreams are a sign of your body recovering.
A wet dream is defiantly not a relapse! It's a natural thing that happens to a lot of guys, don't beat yourself up because of it. I did hear though that after a wet dream it happens that people find it harder to hold back the urges. Next time it happens to you do three things: 1) Change your boxers (sorry I had to ). 2) Remind yourself that this is a natural part of you rebooting process. 3) Come back here and spill everything out. We will give you the support you need to prevent youself from relapsing. All the best