I once came across a youtube video. It was like nymphomaniacs were having a meeting...like nymphos anonymous A recovery group. And then after the meeting everyone was hooking up after. We are a group of sex and porn addicts. Lots gathered in once chat space. Just wondering. If everyone was to be honest. Has everyone always used this as a recovery site? Or have u triggered people purposely to your own benefit. Who is guilty of this. Or is everyone always being good on this site.
I'm fairly certain users who purposely posted triggers on here, people who didn't have the best interest for their fellow NoFappers in mind, well those folks are banned now, or should be. Evil should be destroyed immediately, or if not, removed and exiled...
I'm new here, but that is certainly something to keep in mind. I find sharing experiences that I normally am reluctant to discuss with all but a very few somewhat therapeutic, but of course there is the danger of turning yourself on by talking about what turns you on. I'm still of a divided mind as to whether my fetish is the sort of thing that can be understood and through understanding mastered or if it is just something that has to be beaten, understanding be blasted. It might be more the latter. It is at least good to talk about and understand it enough to figure out what triggers it and what it might stem from at least, so that you know what you need to cut off.
There have been few people "guilty of this" here, but I'm not gonna mention any names. They're still a total exception and overall this is a great community. Sometimes you have to overcome it first, and understanding might or might not occur later.
The people who are looking for that show their true colors very early on. There is all sorts of value in sharing your story. But if you start to share excessive details about your sex life, or what turns you on, you'll get a warning, and if it continues, you'll get banned pretty quickly. The moderators here do actually pay attention to what goes on. If you find yourself going to the Women In Reboot section often and starting up conversations, I'd definitely question your motives.
I feel like this is the truth--because the fact is that, I have to overcome it, I have to defeat it. If I do those and can yet never claim understanding of it, then I am still way, way better off. I think the past 10 days, I have had one relapse. I think this site has helped. Hopefully it will help me cement things this time. I had gone for at least two months earlier this year and thought I was finished, but it snuck back in. I know for sure that what I can do for 2 months, I can do for 12...and for the rest of my life. Just have to get there.
Yeah, I'd definitely call that a NoFap deal-breaker. That's not cool at all. There are millions of other women he could have sent that to. The fact that he sent that pic to a woman who's here trying to get better is infuriating to me. And apologies ... in my first response to this thread I thought you were a guy. I just wasn't paying close attention. Oops!