Basically I met this girl through mutual friends that I like and I could obviously tell she really liked me , but I still have PIED so I wont be able to have sex with her for a while. What should I tell her?
Truth. Nothing is better than that. If the girl is into you, she'll wait before get intimate with you or enjoy some other practice. There is NO pressure for you right now. Go to dates, enjoy life and her company. Too early for any serious conversations.
"Too early for serious conversations" Won't she eventually find it weird that I wont have sex with her?
Depends on how long it takes to be able to have sex I guess. I would say be honest, if the topic of porn comes up along the way be honest. If she asks why you won't have sex, be honest. She will appreciate the honesty. I can tell you that lying is the thing that almost tore my relationship with my fiance apart. I always told him to be honest with me from the get go, and told him my boundaries and he didn't respect it and lied. I much rather be hurt by truth than happy living a lie.
You are just met each other. Relax and be honest when the question would appear. More wierd is to discuss sex if there is no hits for that
What I would say is to just talk to her, get to know her, and just hang out with her for about a month and not look at porn, and not masturbate during the whole time. Hopefully by the time a sexual encounter occurs you'll be able to get it up due to growing closer to her and essentially depriving yourself of sexual acts.
take her out and do stuff together man, no fear. keep your thoughts away from the PIED it will only create a disconnection by you worrying about it dude. cross the bridge when you come to it whilst waving your flag of truth then...you never know that after your period of getting to know each other evolves into something more sexual then she may arouse you so much that it all works out. KOW