To those that have gone an extended period without PMO, are you single and deliberately avoiding sex and relationships or is it like me and you're 'forever alone' either way? Have you had opportunities to have sex and turned it down? If someone starts to show interest in you or you think you may be interested in them have you had to step back and distance yourself? I suppose what I'm asking is, at what stage do you go back to meeting partners and having sexual relationships again? If the idea is once you've achieved a reboot, how long is that going to take?
In my personal opinion, you shouldn't avoid sex at all if your on PMO. I know I wouldn't have gotten to 77 days If I didn't have a girlfriend. I think you should go out and meet women and have sex because the whole purpose of pmo is to kick the addiction of masturbating and watching porn. Also, having sex with real life partners rewires the brain into associating sex with people instead of a computer.
i just started living like it is. As soon i started nofap i had chance to be with girls and i did it, doing every time what i felt was right. At first only foreplay, after something like 80 days i had sex with a girl and was amazing.
Thanks for your replies but I'm directing this to those that are without PMO. I have noticed some on the forum with over 100+ days
I never did get a reply from the no-PMOs and I've seen a few on here . Very interested to hear their take on this. Please PM me if you would prefer
Not sure if 30 is considered an extended period. I'm not deliberately single or avoiding sex/relationships. By doing PMO I was denying myself the experiences of putting myself in situations where sex/relationships develop. I chose to fall back to the comfort of the familiar in PMO. You can start meeting people and having sexual relationships again when you push yourself outside your comfort zone. Rebooting won't magically make you wake up one day feeling ready to meet people. You have to use the time you don't spend PMOing to go out and socialize, get out of your comfort zone. That's what I think.
It really depends on your situation, I prefer to abstain from any kind of O for at least 90 days so I can be more comfortable it won't be detrimental to my reboot, if you feel that "as long as you get laid" you're ok then go ahead, every head is a world
[QUOTE = "balasubramaniac, post: 1129122, membro: 165607"] Secondo la mia opinione personale, non dovresti evitare assolutamente il sesso se sei su PMO. So che non sarei arrivato a 77 giorni Se non avessi una ragazza. Penso che dovresti uscire e incontrare donne e avere rapporti sessuali perché l'intero scopo di Pmo è di prendere a calci la dipendenza dal masturbarsi e dal guardare il porno. Inoltre, fare sesso con partner di vita reale riconduce il cervello ad associare il sesso con le persone invece che con un computer. [/ QUOTE] great!