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    In need of friends who have been in my shoes and have words of wisdom

    I never opened up to any of my friends or family either. NoFap is a godsend particularly in that way. But hanging around with friends and family...
    Post by: self healing, Apr 29, 2018 in forum: Partner Support
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    In need of friends who have been in my shoes and have words of wisdom

    This is hard, hard stuff. What are you doing to take care of yourself? Going anyway to the therapist is good, but therapy is one tool in the shed,...
    Post by: self healing, Apr 29, 2018 in forum: Partner Support
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    Journal of a wife with husband PMO, prostitutes and affairs. And two young children.

    I have never read the book, and have no opinion specifically to offer on it. Self-help books that place the onus on the betrayed party speak, I...
    Post by: self healing, Apr 28, 2018 in forum: Partner Support
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    In need of friends who have been in my shoes and have words of wisdom

    I am so sorry for what you're going through. You are not alone; for better AND for worse, you'll find a lot of company here at NoFap. Shame can be...
    Post by: self healing, Apr 28, 2018 in forum: Partner Support
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    How should a PA behave in relation to their SO (one-liners please...)

    Do unto others, as you'd have them do unto you. It's amazing how far the stuff you learned in kindergarten and/or Sunday school can go in a...
    Post by: self healing, Apr 21, 2018 in forum: Rebooting in a Relationship
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    I thought things were getting better, but we both took our rings off and called it quits tonight:(

    You both took off your rings and say it's over, but you also say you don't know what else to do. Is your husband willing to take responsibility...
    Post by: self healing, Feb 17, 2018 in forum: Rebooting in a Relationship
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    My SO mentioned porn during sex

    The thing is, if he's really tackling his porn addiction, he shouldn't be entertaining thoughts about pornography as well as not watching it. By...
    Post by: self healing, Feb 17, 2018 in forum: Partner Support
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    Question for SOs: is it important who we are giving up for?

    Great thread. Around the AA rooms, it's said, "You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink. BUT he might get thirsty". So even if...
    Post by: self healing, Feb 5, 2018 in forum: Rebooting in a Relationship
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    Grieving SO

    My husband gives every indication that he is doing all the right stuff for the past 3-4 months. About two weeks ago, however, I had pain and...
    Post by: self healing, Feb 4, 2018 in forum: Rebooting in a Relationship
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    Please help - self esteem is crushed

    Even porn stars don't look like porn stars! At the very least, they're aided by professional makeup, lighting, and camera angles. Personally, I...
    Post by: self healing, Feb 4, 2018 in forum: Partner Support
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    I may have just ruined my marriage

    Not just opening up his floodgates, but also normalizing the behavior for you. Part of my journey with my husband: He was avoiding sex with me,...
    Post by: self healing, Jan 28, 2018 in forum: Partner Support
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    Finally Moving Forward ~Rachie's Journal

    For what it's worth, in Alcoholics Anonymous, a sponsor, the rough equivalent of an accountability partner, is someone in recovery and the same...
    Post by: self healing, Jan 15, 2018 in forum: Significant Other Journals
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    Finally Moving Forward ~Rachie's Journal

    I am so sorry for your pain. You seem to be so hard on yourself, something that I relate to. It takes two people to make a marriage, but only one...
    Post by: self healing, Jan 15, 2018 in forum: Significant Other Journals
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    Finally Moving Forward ~Rachie's Journal

    Wow. You're quoting almost verbatim some of the things I said to my husband back in October in this most recent confrontation we've had about his...
    Post by: self healing, Dec 12, 2017 in forum: Significant Other Journals