Recent Content by Dr.Shilo

There are a few things I can think of that might be causing this. One is the stress of trying to win custody for your kids. Stress can...

When does it happen and what are the triggers (what makes you start thinking about it)? Are you going to school or do you have work?

I agree that I think that keeping pornography in the dark doesn't help anybody. It's become that addiction and health crisis that everybody just...

Whenever you are looking at pornography you are not just seeing a woman's genitals but also the man's right? When you reach completion while...

The drive for procreation can be very strong at your age and unfortunately when you get into college, things get even more intense because it's...

Hey success isn't in the falling down but the getting back up. You're doing a great job! I wouldn't call what happened a relapse since much of...

Don't get me wrong I agree that masturbation is a lot better than viewing pornography and is definitely the lesser of two evils. I was just...

I'm glad you've been able to open your mind and understanding through meditation. Continue this exercise and always strive for an even deeper...

I'm the same way. It's those late hours in the night and/or early hours in the morning that are the hardest because you have nothing to do and...

Your fear of a cheating partner and never being able to satisfy her sexually is a side effect of pornography and sex addiction. There is a ton of...

To be honest o think you have better chances of finding love than a woman in your same situation. Guys find it hard to get into a relationship...

You know what I find the most attractive in a woman? Her character, personality, ability to be a faithful companion, and her confidence. Don't...

Good luck and know that although you may have fought a little with people in this forum, you're accepted and not completely without morals....

You can take 1 of 2 routes. Some people really find that prayer, meditation, and listening to soothing music helps. If you're like me it...

Fight the urges friend. You know what helps me? Find some way to serve your girlfriend. Write a poem, sing a song, write a sweet message about...