I am on day 9 of nofap. Anyways the thing is that its actually making me kind of sad right now. The reason is the question in my mind which is bothering me right now, that why on the fucking earth, I am from those people who have stuck in this ED problems. There are billions of others who don't have this issue.. Why me man? Why me? Only those can understand who have been in this situation and know how it feels like. Worst feeling of life. I am actually writing this post with a very sad feeling in my heart. I wish I could just cry or a wish that what if I sleep tonight and all this ED will go away just like it never were a part of my life, like a nightmare with no reality. I wish so........... Will I ever be get a cure; I don't know. Anyone out there to help me right now?
You could say the same about gambling addicts, drug addicts, alcoholics, compulsive overeaters - Why you? Why me? Why them? It is self-inflicted - we are reaping the consequences of the seed we have sewn spilled! The cure is down to you, too.
I cried from the core of my being this morning. I wasn't depressed, it welled up from deep within my being during a spiritual practice. I feel different since letting it out but I know that wasn't all that needs to get out of there from the pain I've inflicted upon my own life, with my own mistakes being the only culprit.
Don;t lose hope man. Porn induced ED is not permanent. It can be reversed by months of hard mode recovery.
You sure its not permanant? I have sworn to myself to never do P nd M 9days ago. I will die but will never engage in this sick activity.
Many people here have seen differences. 9 days are not enough to reverse the damage done by porn and fapping. You must wait at least 90-100 days and maybe even more. Keep trying and you will see improvements in different areas of life.
It's both self inflicted and reverseable. So I feel I'm very lucky because of this, and proud that I've come a long way, only realizing porn is a problem is a huge step. So why you? Well, of all different problems there are in this world, it's statistically very likely for you to have at least one of those. And I think PE is a lot more common than we know, and more and more people are having it thanks to porntube sites. Kattskägg
But I have a question that keep on biting me for a very long time. Even if I reboot successfully how will this fear of ED with real women will go away from my mind? They say this fear is one of the major cause of no erection during a real intercourse. Please answer if anyone knows.
You are doing it - total abstinence from PMO until you are rebooted and full sexual function is restored.
Can anyone answer this for me??? But I have a question that keep on biting me for a very long time. Even if I reboot successfully how will this fear of ED with real women will go away from my mind? They say this fear is one of the major cause of no erection during a real intercourse. Please answer if anyone knows.
Don't worry, we just need to adept to these new threats coming all the time. I feel obesity is a way bigger problem and challenge. If we got gastric sleeve and such, will there be a "cure" for PA in the future? Thinking about Ludovico in Clockwork Orange now... Kattskägg
Then that ED is anxiety induced which can only go away if you when you stop feeling anxious with women. I am sure this type ED is very common and easier to fix than porn induced.
Since it's psychological it depends. It may take shorter or longer. If you become obsessed with it, it will get stuck, like some sort of PTSD. You must have faith and self-confidence. When you reboot and the time comes and the other person is true, you will perform. I'm positive. Don't give up! Also yes, if you think you need a professional's perspective, don't hesitate to seek help.
What does that exactly mean and what is it? I never really figured it out since I'm fairly new to this.