Get a reboot, then a prostitute.

Nooooooo! Don't do that!

I remember a similar post on here about this... No one agreed with him. Let me put it this way.

Sex is an act of love. Pornography is a fake act of love. None of it's real, and it's all ACTING. Prostitution and pornography are very similar. They're both not love. There's also no emotion, and just pleasure for the guy paying. It won't be real, and at the end of the day the prostitute doesn't care about you.

Do something else to motivate you.

~Squeaky Soul

 

I think it's going to make you feel pretty shitty afterwards, bro.

 

I agree with the previous two comments. Believe me, I have been there. Watched so much porn and then decided that I wanted a real thing and went to a prostitute. It did not satisfy and felt shitty afterward, and returned to using porn for free rather than pay a stranger who is not really interested in me. Yes, the release was there, but afterward it was as if a bit of my soul was torn apart.

Prostitution and porn are some of the worse forms of degradation, objectifying and humiliation of women. Going to a prostitute is simply contributing to the problem. For me personally, I had to admit that my compulsive PMO is an addiction and it may be that it is the case for you as well. If it is, then, using prostitutes will simply feed your sex addiction rather than help.

Pornography is prostitution pure and simple. The old time prostitute is paid money to perform sex with a stranger. The porn prostitute is paid money to perform sex with a stranger, for strangers and on camera. They are lied to and lie to themselves by using the terms "pornstars, actor or actresses". They are just people paid to perform sex acts i.e. prostitutes.

If I understand your logic correctly, you want to abstain from watching prostitutes performing for you on your screen and want to act out live with your own prostitute. So, what is the difference there? If I were you, I would focus on breaking free from addiction and seek to build meaningful relationships. Good luck

 

wow very good answer tombuktu.

i had the same idea like flipflops.

but right - porn is prostitution in front of a camera.

you are just joining into a porn - in some way you shoot your own porn.

finding a girlfriend looks like the right decision...

 

When I had sex with my now ex girlfriend it was amazing. I loved her, and it was passionate, and soul felt good after.

About a month ago, I was getting a lap dance from a stripper and we started making out, and she gave me her number. I ended up getting a motel down the street and having sex with her that night.

She was hot, and it was still enjoyable in the moment, but i felt ripped apart aafterwards. It was mutually consenting sex and I didn't have to pay for it, but I didn't know her or love her. I felt guilt and shame after, like my soul was ripped out of me.

Moral of the story, porn has warped our idea on what sex should be, and there is a reason God created it as an act of love.

 

abel there is no emotional fulfilment in having sex with a hooker.

watching porn is a trigger for visiting a hooker. it is so easy once you get used to it. you loose every bit of shame.

all the things like speaking, trying to impress, trying to be polite, showing you are interested are not necessary any more.

it is like going to burger king and ordering a hamburger. i always said it is like cheating in a videogame.

once you follow this path it is very very hard to resist the urge.

there is another factor like having might. you have the might to have sex whenever you want.

 

In today's world, everything is more easily accessed than it was before. If you're hungry, you can order a pizza. That requires no effort on your part. You don't even have to know how to cook. If you're horny, you can visit porn sites, go to a strip joint, or (if you're financially able) get a hooker. One of the images I posted to my NoFap journal says "Learning to delay pleasure is a sign of maturity." Yes, you're delaying pleasure for 90 days, but you don't delay it anymore once you use a hooker. Your mind will get used to using a hooker, and once that happens, how is that any different than using porn whenever you want to?

My advice: DON'T have sex with a hooker, even as a "reward" for going 90 days without fapping.

 

using a hooker or using porn makes no difference - both damages highly social capabilities.

this bad habits complete each other.

 

No offence, but even on a website where dumb logic is constantly posted, that's got to be the dumbest logic I've seen in a long time. Go a few hundred days without PMO, and then visit a prostitute? I don't get it. If you consider that a reasonable idea, then I'm concerned about your rationale for giving up PMO. In my mind, hiring a prostitute is worse than PMO. It would be more reasonable for you to propose celebrating your nofap streak by fapping. Please don't. Just don't. Save up R$1 every day if you like, but spend it on something worthwhile. A new guitar. A weekend trip. Hell, get a GIRLFRIEND and spend it on an amazing dinner with her. Save up the money if you like, but whatever you do, don't spend it on anything remotely related to sex or porn in any way.

 

dumb logic is also logic.

what if you are mutated to a pervert zombie and dont know how to handle normal girls?

here are some people with girlfriends. they have sex. i dont know how often but they have.

this is a kind of joke for me - this is like foolproof.

 

You should save the money and send it to me when it reaches about $500, then start saving again and keep sending it to me

 

I wouldn't do it man. As others have said, porn and prostitutes are [or are very close to being] the same thing.

“Change happens when the pain of staying the same is greater than the pain of change.”

 

right abel i have to do lots of introspection.

there was a friendly and funny otto before this desease who had no problems with normal girls.

i have to crush that zombie! i built him. i have to find the causes.

but a degeneration of 13 years is quite resistent.


freedomflight - thats true it is running away from human interaction.