So I was just sat at my computer about 5-10 minutes ago, and I had quite a serious erection. Now, you must understand that I wasn't looking at porn or planning on MO'ing. I very briefly touched 'down there' as I was feeling some discomfort, and before I knew it, it just came gushing out. I didn't even feel a real O, maybe just a tiny bit. i didn't mean for this to happen, I wasn't looking at porn and I'm on a great streak (for me anyway). I really don't want to have to reset my counter when I'm 2 days away from breaking a record. Opinions?
Give yourself a break...no I would not say that is a relapse. You will know if you 'crossed the line'. However, remain vigilant and try to keep up your good streak!
Thanks, I was expecting someone to say 'Yes, reset your counter and go be depressed again' (or something like that). Glad this website is full of understanding people to help each other along the way
I did touch myself briefly just to 'move it' because the erection was causing discomfort in it's current position. (sorry if that's a bit graphical! )
No, this was NOT a relapse. However, the fact that you came just like this, like, just by touching is weird, see a doctor if it happens again.
That's what I thought. It's been about 2 or 3 months since I've gone this long without PMO. Maybe my body was struggling with this sudden change.
Yeah, I think horniness combined with unusual semen buildup has caused this, but if it happens again and again get yourself checked.
I certainly will. I think strong urges and the fact that this is the first time I've passed 5 days since about 2 months contributed towards it.
You jizzed in your pants.. at times i have felt ready to burst and when i had lots of it built up i just kissed a girl i jizzed in my pants. It can happen.. You did not relapse, but you did loose some chi. If you are into that sort of thing. Which i am.. i learned to do tantra exercise and meditations to transmute the sexual energy up. But just lots of physical ecercise will do this too. The real issue to watch for is the Chaser effect. I have had a wet dream that triggered me into a relapse. Be really carfeful the next few days. This was not a relapse but could lead to one really easy.
Thanks for the advice. I'm very aware of the chaser effect and what it can do, having been victim to it for many, many months. I'm going to be visiting family tomorrow, so hopefully that will prevent a relapse, and I may take a long walk Sunday, and then it's a new week so I'll think about that when it arrives
@I Need Help , at your age it doesn't take much work to blow a load. You can enjoy having a young healthy body now, and if you avoid traps like PMO, you'll enjoy a mature healthy body. It will function well when needed, but won't blow a load without warning.
Seems like you are regaining sensitivity "down there." This is normal in the rebooting process. If you were not looking at porn or fantasizing in your head then is not a relapse. You are becoming sensitive, which is a good thing!