I don't know what it is but today has hit me hard, I cant stop fantasizing about women. I have never fantasized like this before it has hit me really hard this time what should I do?
chris555, post: 867544, member: 99921"]I hate that! but I made it through that crazy Ness I have a desire to fap but my desire to succeed and beat this addiction is higher, we can do this!
What's wrong with fantasizing? I fantasize all the time. I fantasize when I'm alone, when I'm at the grocery store, the mall, you name it. I guess it's a problem if you think you can't stop. It's called being male. In fact, I'd be worried if I WASN'T fantasizing. Now, I will say this. Just because you fantasize doesn't mean you have to masturbate. Learning to enjoy a fantasy without touching yourself is a skill and an art. I like to channel my fantasies into drawings and writing. Psychologists refer to this as sublimation. Give it a try.
it's not so much that you are fantasizing, I probably watched a lot of porn? if so, those fantasies, are just tape recorders of those porn video's going through your mind. just don't let it upset you. that is what triggers, the getting upset at those thoughts, that get you to act on them, so just ignore the fantasies. you are not the one creating those fantasies, they come from years/ months of, even if you have had fantasies in the past, they are just playing back to you per see. just ignore them, you want to change now, you can, just relax and you will be o.k.
I watched videos two hours a day longer. In the dream tonight came me pictures of video pages... A sign of my spirit? But I want to finish with the videos. They've robbed me too much time. I want to use my time better. Nice to see that we are three at ten days.