So..a couple of days ago I met a girl at a party. Long story short, I was a little too drunk to function properly, so I managed to cock block myself in a superb fashion. Couldn't stop thinking about it. Caved a few minutes ago. I'm quite pissed, but ... ah! dammit. This was my first attempt and I fucked up at day 12, but the amount of horniness is insane. How do you deal with this shit when not in a stable relationship?
Just got to keep active brother. Literally shape a new life for yourself so that PMO cannot even fit into it anymore. What are your hobbies? What are your passions? Invest in those things at all times and make it your life. Be driven by your work and have fun with it. Install K9 onto your computer and get someone else to make a password for you, so that you cannot override anything, or even better, throw your computer away. Everyone's situation is different. I'm sure you know what you have to do. Do whatever it is to stop yourself from PMO. It's also going to take a shear amount of will power as well, but you can do it.
It's pretty simple. Don't lie to yourself. By fapping you're pretty much saying to your body: yep, I got with that girl. Don't do it buddy, let your body face the truth. Good luck,
Workout like an animal. Meditate twice a day before going to bed and after waking up. Read books that expand your mind and spirit. Find a spiritual meaning to your life. GROW AND MAN THE FUCK UP. DON'T LET your horniness PUSH YOU AROUND.
12 days is really impressive for a first streak. Learn from it and don't binge now, so you won't lose all of your progress. It's all in your head. Willpower is everything you need. Oh, and once you get higher streaks where the benefits start to kick in, you will always have a reason not to quit, because you don't want to lose them.