Starting because of a bad date

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Gregtootall, Feb 24, 2017.

  1. Gregtootall

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    I have been single for over a year and used porn daily during that time. I met someone else online and decided to meet. Coffee went well so we scheduled a date that went physical and I semi was able to perform. We met up again with the intention of sex and I could not perform this time at all. It's been a week without porn and I feel more attracted to my date now but haven't gotten hard. Is trying to date while I go through the reboot bad?
     
  2. Silly question dude but do you definitely fancy her? I know you say you do but do you?

    Reason I say this was that about 2.5 years ago now I was having casual sex with a lovely looking girl who had legs for days. Her attractiveness was hard to dispute. However she was a bit odd or seemed that way to me. I found that I was having trouble getting hard for her and finishing the job.

    I ended it not too long after. Was odd. Something onside of me just wasn't feeling it.
     
  3. Hi and Welcome to NoFap! Whether or not to date during a reboot is a personal choice. If you look at other threads in this forum, you will see that you are not the only person wondering this! I say if you think it will interfere with your PMO goals, you should remain single. Abstaining further during the rebooting process should also help with PIED. Good luck!