I'm curious as to how many of us are suffering any sexual dysfunction and what kind. Your answers are private.
Bump. I'm surprised there's not more ED, but 8 responses isn't a good sample size. Reading folks' journals, especially the under 30 crowd, it seems everyone deals with ED.
ED is erectile dysfunction, i.e. not being able to get it up or keep it up or never getting fully erect. A lot of young guys, especially, seems to have problems getting hard without porn. DE is delayed ejaculation, i.e. not being able to cum through normal sexual stimulation; it's thought excessive fapping with a "death grip" on your dick contributes to the problem. PE is premature ejaculation, i.e. cumming too quickly when sexually stimulated
I'm not sure how you vote. Maybe it's because I'm on a smartphone I can't see the voting buttons. I'm not embarrassed to say that I've had DE for as long as I remember (going back to my early 20s). ED has been more sporadic. I've been ok in some situations but not in others. Generally where I've been with partners where we've had P style sex, ED has not been an issue. Where I've been with partners who wanted vanilla sex (and I include oral, most sex positions without the aid of devices or costumes, etc in the category of vanilla.) I've had varying levels of ED.
I have had a problem with PE for as long as I can remember. Back before I lost my virginity, I didn't pay it any mind, I was only trying to reach O before anyone found out what I was doing anyway. That may be the cause of it. M from an early age I mean. After losing my virginity, and after several encounters later, when I continued to be unable to last very long at all (less than a minute of full on stuff without holding back), and that hasn't changed much. I have only had limited success in putting away the effects of PE including the 'double-wrap' method (2 condoms for extra desensitivity), although haven't been able to try the special Desensitizing stuff I have heard about. Any advice on this would be golden.
PE here. It improves noticeably when I don't PMO and when serial activity with my wife is more frequent. I've never had issues with ED or DE.