What are your interests? What movies/books/music/hobbies do you enjoy? I'm pretty sure that there are women out there who enjoy the same. If you find common interests/passions before you focus on her as a sexual interest, then you will have lots in common to enjoy Good luck!
Well... For me, it would mean that i am very busy and i am so committed to improve myself that i do not have space in my life for another thing with a girl, except sex and friendship. That's basically what's happening to me for some time...
Means you need to push your imagination a bit more. You have let the creativity slack off too much (perhaps? )
I'm confused by your question? Do you mean you have nothing in common with any women? That's impossible, we all socialize in some way, have jobs at the same place, do some of the same activities, eat, sleep, and repeat. I guarantee in everything I do, there's at least 100 or more women that do the same thing as me. Therefore I have something in common with many women and that includes having sex with women that are of interest to me.