There are 1,000 ways to do it. What's your specific situation? Do you have a specific girl in mind or a type of girl? The more specific the better.
i went to a psycologist and told him about my problems and porn addiction, he told me that i have to find a girlfriend first so i have to set this as a goal.so i will try to find one at my university but i dont know how to start, what to ask, where to go. If you where in my place and wanted to find a girlfriend at the university what will you do?. I told my psycologist that i have approached girls on the street but didn't have any success and he suggested me to try at my university where girls feel more safe and confortable
Fire your psychologist. "Find a girlfriend" what BS advice is that?? Did you ask him "And how exactly do I find a girlfriend?" Read this post I just wrote https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/how-to-use-nofap-forum-to-find-a-girlfriend.348376/
he suggested me to find a girlfriend because i am 23 years old still virgin and i feel sexualy lonely thats why i watch porn,i dont find anything wrong in this
It's like me telling you "become a millionaire", "buy a house" or "get a job at NASA". Btw you use porn because you are addicted, not because you're lonely. A girlfriend will not cure your porn addiction. You should work on your porn addiction while looking for a girlfriend
look i only did one consultation with the psycologist,i have other problems in my life that made me addicted, so i have to fix those problems. There are years that i have tried to stop this addiction by myself without getting into a relationship and have failed over and over again. So i have to change my life,i will set as a goal to find a girlfriend, in the next consultation i will try to remove any limiting beliefs.We will go step by step,just trying all day not to fap and doing nothing will not improve my life
I am lonely and have family problems thats why i got addicted to porn,so now i have to keep living my life as good as i can.I cant wait for years till i remove this addiction and wait for everything to get perfect so then i will try to find a girlfriend
we will do a lot of work on many problems that i have not just porn addiction, we are trying to find and cure the causes of porn addiction, he didn't told me "aa you are addicted because you dont have a girlfriend" but somehow i have to fill that void of loneliness and remove that trauma from my family problems
Use quitting porn as a motivation, Don't try dating until you make it 90 Days without porn or masturbation.
No there is not more waiting ive been waiting years to fix this addiction and nothing happened i need connection with another human being so it will be easier to quit and start living my life
I agree with his recommendation. He sees you are sad because of not having a girlfriend, and the best solution for highest happiness is to find a girlfriend
But actually finding one, one who genuinely cares enough about you. That's the real hard part, and I am determined to kick my Pmo habits before I ever start dating.
You should definitely get into good, long term recovery before considering a girlfriend. Women are not tools to cure your loneliness through romantic relationships. Friends can also help your loneliness. Until you are in solid recovery, you are not in a state to reciprocate any kind of emotional support a girlfriend might be able to be for you. Find some friends and build good friendships.
I don't know guys what you think ,because i watch porn doesn't mean that i am depressed without energy or with a lot of problems,i cant wait for the perfect time to keep living my life, this is the problem of nofap. I do more things that more people do,so there is no reason to wait,ok i might have pied if i dont try having sex with a girl i will never know.I prefer to have relationships with women and find out with them that i have pied rather that staying single without any connection hopping that one day i will stop relapsing so i can continue living my life.
I WILL BLOCK NOFAP BECAUSE I HAVE THE FEELING THAT MOST PEOPLE HERE ARE GETTING OBSESSED WITH NOFAP AND GIVE BAD ADVICE,I WAS IN THE SAME PLACE AND NOTHING CHANGED SO I HAVE TO TAKE DIFFERENT ACTION
Do you.....tell her before you get to that point that you are a recovering porn addict? There are definitely women who would not be interested in that with a former/current addict and do not want to be used as a tool for you to test your recovery.