I know the penis changes size and girth all the time . When I'm fully relaxed mental at ease .sitting at 5" flaccid . But is a rarity because. Always stressed or hyped up . I have ADHD so I'm restless person . But this continued stress makes my dick tighten it becomes.shorter and thinner and basically my sex drive goes out the window. It's strange how my size.when flaccid can change so much from a hanging out the top of my clenched fist to it sitting cupped in my hand like I've been in cold water . I lose a good 2 inches just because of stress is this normal . My diet is dog shit and I probably have high blood pressure
I can only speculate, but it wouldn't shock me that the human body switches priority when you're under pressure.
I would say your soft length and girth when flaccid is not a matter of concern. So, how long is your penis when erect?