Hey guys, today is day 31st of my nofap hardmode journey and it has been amazing to say the least. I've noticed the "superpowers" first hand, i have practically no anxiety, do not suffer from depression anymore and my confidence is through the roof. I am however in the "flatline" at the moment so i don't know how exactly it has helped my brain rewire sexually. For those who've relapsed and are currently struggling to get back on track, i have one thing to say, we all know it's hard but it DEFINITELY WORTH IT. peace
bro i had ED, and i haven't tried it with a girl since i started nofap, but i have a feeling my ED is cured now.
Congrats! you made it this far. To make sure your ED is cured, you can try to go get a date and move on sexually...and you will know if it's cured or not...that way you can work on social skills too. Just sayin'...
bro i've noticed that i can get hard in a jiff if an attractive girl sits next to me in class for example, and no i don't fantasize or edge, the arousal is simply a result of the girl herself, not some porn fantasy. I believe that i should be able to stay hard while sex, so it is very likely that i'm cured. I can tell even though i'm in the flatline for the most part.
Thanks man its day 32 today and i'm still going strong. My plan is to go hardmode for 90 days then move on to sex. I don't know if staying hardmode for 90 days would help more or not though.
Try going hardmode man, your counter says its been 15 days since you saw porn. Completely cutting out porn for 58 days would've definitely done the trick.
Good stuff I like the flat line personally i feel very happy particularly as there is no sexual urges or temptation and my mood generally happy i smile a lot as i just feel happy. ....
30 days isn't enough to cure your ed. Though 1 week is enough to actually cure your ed. The reason why I say 30 days isnt enough is because you should give your body a longer amount of time to heal. If you relapsed mid reboot, everything will fall back to step one. That includes you erection stiffness, your tolerance to porn-meaning softcore porn will get you just as hard as hardcore porn.
Atak, I've said this before on one of your posts. Anything that sexually arouses you is detrimental to your reboot. The problem is not in your pants, it's in the brain so if you view anything that fires the dopamine receptors, you're setting yourself back in your recovery process. Viewing P for hours is like bathing in dopamine as opposed to M without P. The info is all on ybop.com
If you're going hard around girls, how are you in a flatline? Flatlines are periods of time during the reboot where nothing seems to sexually arouse a person and so it feels as though you've lost all libido. If you're getting aroused, then you're not flatlining.
it's all quite confusing to me tbh, but it is very likely that i am in the flatline. for example, i would go 5-6 days without getting even an erection or any sexual thought but when i go out and see someone attractive i get aroused/sometimes i don't. I'm sure now that i can get hard if i want to, but i don't feel the URGE to have sex/masturbate anymore.
I think it's a bit early to tell. I wouldn't jump into bed with a woman just yet because if you're not quite there yet, a failure to perform tends to set many people back in their reboots. Best to go hardmode for at least 90 days and then take it from there.