My name is Toyin. I'm so glad I found NoFap... I knew for a long time that the reason I keep relapsing is because I had the challenge of sharing my challenges. I think finding NoFap is just the solution I needed.
I felt the exact same way when I found this community. For a long time I seemed to be the only who cared about my problem, everyone I talked to about it didn't even treat it as a problem. They just said it's "natural" and "okay" but to me it felt far from any of those. So finding this place was a big relief, and it has been a great help. I'm sure it will be a great help to you as well, good luck!