Powerful stuff which I also can relate to. Thanks for posting and let's take the small, regular steps to building back.
Guys you can turn around your life It's a matter of adding healthy habits to your weekly routine and giving yourself love Do it for a while, repeat and feel better Promise it works (Running, eating whole foods, cut down seed oils, medidate, do a coding Bootcamp, etc
21 year old version of yourself , living at parents' home , no money , no job , no life..1.5 months sober..lots of things gonna ruin if i dont do something soon..
Thank you for sharing your struggle. I am in a very similar situation to you right now, even close ages. Your story has inspired me to share a post of my own.
I'm 26 years old and I'm exactly like you, except that I don't have any contact with girls, because I reject each one to ic
You are not a loser, my friend. At least you have choices in your life to make. I think you are too hard on yourself, and it is happening because you compare yourself with others or focus too much on your past. You have a future because you have even a few opportunities that you have, but you don't notice them because your attention is on your past. Change your focus to the future, learn from your mistakes and be a better man. Good luck! We all are not losers, but instead - we are warriors, those who are not comfortable with some things in their lives. Isn't it good that we want good for ourselves?
Those who fell the deepest have the potential to rise the highest. Your journey has hardly started And you have so much to look forward to
imo, you need a "win", something that will give you that boost of confidence and provide some hope. Put a resume together - ask someone to help if needed. Write a plan on paper - do it now. Begin with the end in mind. Everyone is hiring right now. Find a company that promotes from within and work your way to the top - it's all about selling yourself and making contacts. Just take one baby step and get that momentum going. Just taking one action, even if it's small, will get you up and going. Not saying it's going to be easy but I think working is the best medicine and will take your mind away from PMO.
I am 20 years old but I am in a similar boat as you, a social recluse, zero social ties, no friends, high social anxiety, and lacking hope. Worst of all, I am severely addicted to PMO. I know this is unnecessary to say this but, I hope this is legit. Thank you for warning us
Even though that i live probably thousands miles away from you, wiredly i am in the same exact age and i have the same exact experience, every word you said i experienced. Even the thinking of suicide and be to much a bitch to do it. Don't worry im not going to kill myself for porn! But us guys living every day of our lives like we are literally living in hell of our own creation and we can't stop it, and we don't know why we can't stop it !!!!!!!!
I hope you are doing better my guy, thanks to the universe for sending your post my way, I am 20 years old! Thank you!
I am 20 too, dude! If you need an accountability partner, you can message me! When were you addicted, and how long have you been trying to quit? I'm interested to hear from you!