dude i saw you on another thread going all about how homosexuality is the vilest of the vile, that most of them are inducted to it while being teenager and that the immediate reaction of your relatives upon your *coming out* is to imagine you having anal or oral sex, now here you here with your "Gotta get it when it’s fresh".
Men also become fertile at the age of 13/14 years old. Based on your logic it also makes sense biologically for older fertile women to breed with younger, potent males.
But what about the long term effects ? One day you'll be mature enough to distinguish it as pedophilia. Add to that a lot of kids don't gain sexual awareness until reaching 15 years old.
There are young boys who have been molested by babysitters, and they admitted being traumatized by it. Ofc, they didn't realize the severity of the act until later on.
Quite likely an effect of your addiction, can make you see things in more perverted manners. Don’t buy into it, you don’t like teenagers. Your “bad brain” likes that. Keep fighting the good fight, and you shall hopefully, persevere!
i meant your post made it seem like having sex with underage girls is cool while doing the same to boys will lead to lifelong psychological trauma.
No, it's mainly about the age difference. Remember your children are soon going to be teenagers, how would you feel if they were with someone far older than them ?
Seems logical to me to say a persons "bad brain" is part of the self. If the bad brain likes it then the person likes it. There are many things to sort through. Some, or all, of this "like" could be a simple case of monkey see monkey do. A definition of "bad brain" is needed. Is it our fantasies? I would agree that fantasizing about teens is not the same as liking teens. The thing about liking something is a person won't really know until they try it. As an adult I'm aiming toward saying it's not wise to go after teens. I'd even say it's unwise for a 19 year old to go after a 14 year old. A lot changes in those five years.
I see what you are saying, but unfortunately, fantasizing can very often lead to doing, Which is just a NO in this case. Best to kill any fantasies that may actually do harm to your life and that of your loved ones
I agree, fantasizing can lead to a bad outcome. Without re-reading what I wrote, I believe what I want to say is fantasizing should not be considered the same as desire or temptation. Desire and temptation, how ever misguided, should be considered normal. It's about acknowledging we are not perfect and can be sick and twisted inside. At the very least a person should be made to feel comfortable bringing their temptations forward. Keeping this stuff bottled in is what I believe leads people down certain paths. The fantasizing and action is what comes after the temptation.
Any one who is attracted to underage girls or boys are sick; they got problems and need to seek help. The girls (and boys) are not even fully developed when they are still underage.