I see.... Yes, i forgot to mention as well I think it also depends on the severity of the porn addiction, some guys like me I have been addicted to pmo for 10+ years, it will take longer to heal the wounds..... Especially if you have been fapping every day for the past ten years. So sad, even thinking about it.
Yeah, do it! I'm sure it will go a long way in helping with starving porn use. I'm now sleeping earlier and don't carry my phone with me to bed.
day 7/90 Last night, after an argument with my family, I got the motivation to keep going and keep fighting. I need to regain my respect. Another thing is, I read in a forum today on NoFap, that a tip was, to get your 'why' for NoFap clear. So I'm gonna try to understand what my why is. 1. To become a beast. 2. To satisfy every woman I be with. 3. To reach my fullest potential, and unlock all the capabilities in myself. 4. To grow a real, proper, beard. 5. To gain confidence. 6. And to prove to myself, that I am in control of my sexual urges, not the other way round. Hell yeah boys! I'm gonna keep going. that's it. Not a single peek at arousing content. That's it. Let's do this. I can do this.
Unfortunately that's me too... Just for some reason I healed it quicker that time. I was also VERY into her though, that might have made a difference. My PMO addiction was super severe though. I literally was spending 24 hour periods just looking at porn and masturbating. It got so bad it literally took the entire day to finish a single session for awhile, that's how broken I got down there. Yet somehow I cured my pied on only the second attempt with this girl. Every other opportunity I have had with a girl ended with pied though, minus one other when I was much younger. Maybe this instance was just an anomaly. The death drip took much longer though. I guess it's possible my experience here led me to believe that it is easier to beat pied then it really is. This was also a few years ago, so those extra few years of excessive PMO usage may have pushed me over the edge.
Friends I can't seem to go beyond 3 days in this challenge any tips or advice would be absolutely helpful.
True story bro. Was fapping for 9 oder 10 years and practising nofap since 2 years. it takes a lot longer than if you've only watched porn for a month Day 16.
Every time I have an urge I come to this forum and read and write something. It's terrible to say but what helps me most is reading about how someone's life has been destroyed by porn -- someone who just joined nofap because their wife left them because of their porn habit, or lost their job or something similar. It jolts me back into reality -- porn use is no joke. It can really destroy me. That tends to sober me up. I also write about my feelings -- usually I have an urge for P because I'm worried, bored, stressed... writing about how I feel takes away some its power and I get some relief that way. Hang in there, you can do this!
