If a magic man came to you and said: when you wake up, you can either have 1million dollars tax free money in your bank account; or you can finally be free from pmo within 24 hours, which one you taking? For us who arnt sure we will ever get this under control, I'm taking pop. In other words, would you rather have money or be happier.
I think money can hep in becoming happy, but ultimatley it's self love and confidence in who you are that make you happy, and without pmo I know I am that person. I am not prefect by any stretch of the imagination, but I'm caring and actually take notice of others now, which my self-seeking porn addicted self was not, it was all me, me, me and money would never have solved that. So for me I'd rather be addiction free.
If i have no pmo, i would more focus and drive to make more than just a million dollars. But the self respect and enthusiam for life are worth more than any amount of money.
Nobody is answering this man correctly. He asked a question and all I see is no answers. To answer your question OP, if a magic man came down tomorrow when I awoke and offered me 1 million or to never have to deal with pmo ever again, my answer is top easy for myself. Its screw the money, because I'd pay just about anything to be free from this crap. Good topic brother
not 1 million dollar even 10 million dollars can’t make that nofap (confidence ) even 100 million dollars can’t make you naturally attractive even 500 million dollar can’t make you more motivation nofap is our nature money is a tool made by us but our nature’s made by god (allah)
But here's the thing: If you still have your addictions when you get that million dollars, what are you going to do with it? Women like those with money, as is common knowledge, and money can buy many toys. Instead of furthering your goals to be addiction-free, the money would hinder those goals. It is an uncommon sense fact that money does not bring happiness; in fact, it frequently brings the opposite. It is a fact that winning the lottery increases the suicide rate among the recipients of that money. Before winning, the person might have grandiose plans for how to spend the money. After winning, he or she is confronted with relatives and friends who each, by virtue of their relationship, claim a share as theirs. Even if some is given them, they will be unhappy that they were not given more. Fighting ensues, and friends, even the closest of them, are lost. Furthermore, being suddenly rich makes one a target. Perhaps some of the money must be spent for security, or even for bodyguards. Walls might be built around one's property and a secured gate installed at its entrance. These things have the effect of cutting one off from the society of neighbors and friends. Instead of happiness, the money is a source of loneliness and bitterness. And, supposing a rich man has not met his life partner prior to becoming rich, how will he know if the woman really loves him or the money? Money can neither buy nor maintain happiness or love. The love of money is the root of all evil. To the one who loves money, there is never enough of it; it never satisfies. Money can be a useful tool. But the love of money leads only away from happiness--as does the money itself in many cases.
Putting the work in to overcome the addiction is better for me in the long run than a magic pill. Thats why I'd take the money so I can at least save it and be financially secure for my life.
I mean 1 million, in this economy? Not a crazy crazy amount of money. I'd rather go through the character development of beating this thing that I'm not having a too hard time with anyways, while investing and securing a financially securing future with that. In conclusion, invest it and be free from financial burden from the dividens, after actually buying a house of course.
I'll take the no more PMO problem. If you take the 1 mil, who's to say you'll use it for your true happiness and not premium content, toys, escorts. What if the 1 mil is the reason you escalate even more perverted stuff. If you take no more PMO imagine, what if you have the energy, time, motivation, and determination to build yourself up with a business. What if you make the 1 Million of of that. Just keep in mind, there are lawyers and doctors and politicians and executives who have these issues. Rich people buying sex slaves. You hear about it in the news "xyz convicted of cp". Money can do a lot but I feel being free of a PMO problem will let you be satisfied with a lot less. Hence, allowing you to be happier in your current living situation.
Easy. Take the 1 million. With such money i would be able to do the things i wasn't able to do before. Such as say, i always wanted to work on a project car, or do some sailing, parachuting. Such money would make it more easy to build a new habit, or to invest in myself on education, my mind, body. Traveling to other places, meeting new people. With that in mind, i would have enough to build more healthy environment and habits around myself that it would be way easier to quit porn. Money is not the sole drive for happiness, but it certainly makes some things easier.
no longer desire pmo i am not a materialistic person, i am already living fine without having a million dollars, one of my current issues is PMO, so if i can get that out of the way then that would be great
May take the million. I could invest in stuff that can make me happier and may make me not go back to PMO
i will choose money . i can hire a best therapist for my PA. with remaining money i can travel. so i can change my views and get busy. so choose money and with it kill this addiction...if one day this addiction vanishes . then our years long fight will be useless. lets fight this b*ch and be a survivour
Those choosing the money generally add one more straw to the pile to keep the camel's back broken and prevent their escape from PMO. It comes in the form of a subconscious excuse: "I'm not rich enough. I could quit if I had the money."
No PMO. I’ll make the money later. Or not honestly I’m happy with just living comfortably and PMO free