Avoiding Fantasizing

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Baller123, Oct 21, 2020.

  1. Baller123

    Baller123 Fapstronaut

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    Hey I tend to sexually fantasize about a girl I like, do you all have any tips on how to avoid this?
     
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  2. alohacalifornia

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    Practise mindfullness meditation. It will help you focus and prevent distractions.
     
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  3. thikk

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    I used to count till 10 repeatedly in my head while visualizing the numbers. At the beginning I had to do it a lot, but the thought started going out gradually and I got better at getting rid of them without the methods.
     
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  4. fishfoody

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    I also had the same issue with fantasizing. I usually fantasizing on bed when I am about to sleep. Now I think this is rather risky thoughts. I admit it, My weakness lies on bed (no pun intended).
     
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  5. Baller123

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    I like this a lot
     
  6. Baller123

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    I currently do meditate, and have been for some time, yet it hasn't helped too much in this area.
     
  7. Baller123

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    I have stopped cooming for almost 4 weeks now :)