Glad to hear, I don’t want to lose any of you guys. We got a good thing going here. We all know how hard it is, and no one quits without many relapses at first. Good attitude! Every week it’s good to sit down and say “ how did I do this week?” Is there an area I can work on?. It’s a form of meditation and self awareness. I’ve been taught his my whole life at the Christian meetings I attend. When I do it I definitely see results.
Sorry to hear that. I also am feeling stress from my Exams. It helps to remember that I have the power to choose how I will react and improve the circumstances. What can I change to help me feel better? Amount of sleep? Food? Study time? Excercise? Attitude? Sometimes realizing that life will go on even if I fail helps... I mean, it’s not going to take my life.. people live in much worst situations and find happiness. If I just change my mindset I can be happy now. Just food for thought. I hope it helps
@Meep - I hope you have a swift recovery... use this time to build yourself, not giving in to weakness. I envy your stand at such an young age. You have great potential. This is the way *clasps arms* Well done! We are clan of 5 now: ‘Belle, Holley, Mesq, myself, and now.. I’m not going to call you pimp.. your earning a more dignified name... Your changing your view of yourself and others. What do you say to the nickname “Dignity” ? The fallen foundlings are rising back up and will join us soon, our numbers are growing. Let’s build one another up! We are weapons.. sharpening one another for battle. Day 80 This is the Way! *Fires Rocket launcher into enemy AT-ST...Mandalorians pour into broken wall and battle ensues*
Day 13 out of the way and checking in. Plan on changes some things up this week. Didn't fall last week, but got waaay too close. Time to mount up and ride hard!
43 days... wow. I'm going to pull this off with 100% certainty. My porn days are over. I may introduce masturbation to my life again, but porn ... not so much
day 52 i now have a clear mind to able to think about what will i do, sad new's is Corona Virus Positive is found in my province, and now the gov raise the awareness level into level 1 code red i guess i'm so afraid to even go to the gym, and i might skip it for another month Stay Strong Mando
Day Zero How many shots do we get at this? If I need to, I can remove myself from the challenge. I keep stumbling around Day 4 or 5. I would like to try at least one more time.
You can change anytime, any part of the day since it's all up to you. I would recommend "The Improvement Pill" on youtube if you are completely lost. I like his videos but don't lose yourself in his videos
Day 62 I'm doing better than yesterday and the day before that. I still see the positive advantages of the process but this is not a point to stop, we going for it guys!
Your life is your own, and I’m not trying to tell you what to do. But I must ask...why M? I’ve quit both and the power of control I felt over each has given me such strength. What I mean is this... I felt enslaved to P and after I quit that, M still enslaved me and made me feel worthless. And M would cause me to be tempted to view P because it’s a selfish thing. They seem linked. I now feel so clean and free! I changed the way I view sex and women. I view sex as an opportunity to GIVE to my wife, instead of TAKING, this view has honestly lead to better, more fulfilling sex because I slow down and make it more enjoyable for her, instead of jumping to the conclusion O that P and M lean you towards. Again this is just my humble opinion and I only shared so you can see how good it can be. As many as you need, the helmet and Mandalorian Title (day 30) are the only real things you can lose. They are a deterrent... making this become a REAL monster you can see and fight. You have to earn your way, fight for it and be proud enough of what you’ve earned to not let it go This is the way. *upgrades helmet with HUD and hands you newly formed Beskar Greaves* Nice! Your doing so well, making us proud! I’ll also check that video out. Self improvement is a never ending process and leads to happy results
Day 1 Sorry guys for being MIA. I have been dealing with some deep toxic emotions triggered by feeling defective and rejected. This led me to a dark place and I relapsed hard watching porn and masturbating for a good part of Monday. I am back on track though I feel lethargic and lifeless. I have no desire to do work. However, I know that after three days I will be back to near full energy and my body will have recalibrated.
We are glad your here with the Clan Res. We all know the struggle.. and sorry to hear about the dark emotion. I’m proud your facing it, because it’s not easy. It’s not about making yourself hard, it’s about getting back up when things are rough. One step at a time.. can’t run? Walk.. can’t walk? Crawl.. can’t crawl? Flex those muscles.. no one expects more than what you can do, not even our creator