Also the guys should be asking the girls if they have been tested if the guys are sure they are not infected. It's like Russian roulette. STDs are nothing to joke about; syphilis, herpes and all the other health damaging infections. Pills may diminish the effects but many are forever handicapped afterwards. Someone who did examinations of men going of to Vietnam were shocked at the levels of STDs even back then. Nasty.
don't forget the french ravine. https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=French Ravine I had to use that on 2 girlfriends in a row, and I was deep in my 20s at that time
If you think pulling out is an effective form of birth control, you need some more education on the subject.
I said pullout "king" - not some average puller - pullout KING btw - the stats about pulling out's ineffectiveness are overblown by a combination of the uncoordinated, the premature ejaculators, the inexperienced, the drunk, and maybe some really stupid people. The narrative includes precum in the equation, but it's really about people getting it wrong because people get it wrong all the time. Even, still, if you don't believe that. KING.
Hail to the King, Baby! In all seriousness, for the benefit of the doubt maybe there was some kind of protection for pregnancy at least (the pill). STDs are a another story.
If you like to play Russian Roulette... I guess it's okay to do so. But if you value your life and wellness, bow down to the rubber.
Do they have sex education in your country? How would having sex with two clean girls cause a disease bruhhh? And in 2020 who uses condoms Am I right?
It's worked for me so far unless my semen is just bad anyway hahaha Depends who with tbf Condoms kill romance imo
That's stupid as hell, and entirely a man's perspective. "Romance" is caring about the person you are with enough to protect them from unwanted pregnancy. Unless there is some other form of birth control being used, and you have no STDs, then I guess it doesn't matter. The notion that condoms ruin the mood is so childish and perpetuated by porn. Adults care about taking care of each other. Grown ups don't have their "mood" ruined by being responsible and using protection. Yeah, cuz one anecdotal person disproves the proven fact that pulling out is an unreliable and stupid form of birth control... sure.
You can't KNOW they don't have STDs. A large percent of the population is a carrier of HPV, which is one of the leading cause for DEADLY cancer (the human papilloma virus can of course not be seen or felt). Chlamydia can't be seen or felt either, and can cause infertility many years down the line. Unless you are in a monogamous relationship where both of you are tested for ALL possible STDs, you are basically sleeping with all the men these girls are sleeping with too (even if they say they don't). Why on earth do you gamble with your own and other potential partners health like that?? Consider yourself lucky if you only get or give a urinary tract infection.
I know MANY women that feel this way about condoms. Don't get me wrong, I actually agree with you that they're stupid to be anti-condom, especially one of them I know... but the point is, it's not strictly a male perspective.
I suppose some women may feel that way, but I would venture to guess it's mostly a male perspective. Either way, that's not really the main point of what I said.
Agreed. Just like the "selfishness and irresponsibility for having unprotected sex" is not strictly on the man either... @Castielle Why would it have to only be a guy's fault or responsibility for unsafe sex and potential consequences? Isn't a woman just as responsible of her actions as a man?