Day 22 (35 personal) I consider my wife my closest friend. We’ve been married now for 10 years. I feel that these changes from NoFap have helped me care about her more than ever before. I now look for ways to help her around the house, with my son, or do something to make her feel special. The results? We are BOTH happier and I don’t suffer waiting to have sex... now I view sex as an opportunity to GIVE. I find I’m more appreciative of life, the . scenery and living things. I take more time to view sunsets/sunrises, flowers, trees. I find myself praying to God in a deeper, personal way. He’s the reason I chose this path, and therefore I’m deeply grateful. I pray to him like he is my friend, still with respect that he deserves, but as I imagine Abraham did... since the Bible says he was called God’s friend. (James 2:23). I find that although I can do things that impress others, I don’t feel I have to or even want to anymore. I find I know want to learn how to keep things to myself and only reveal them to those deserving. To Those whom my talents and knowledge will have a positive impact on, not wasted. My life is more full and driven. May you all get to experience benefits like these! This is the way!
Your experience is very encouraging and makes me want to experience something similar. I think you have experienced an accelerated level of growth spiritually, mentally and emotionally staying away from porn and working on yourself. Keep up the good work and continue to be the best version of yourself. This is the way!
can i have a little bit question, if u find this rude, then u dont need to answer it so are u met and married before or after the exposure of porn ?
Before... I was around 10 years old when I found girls attractive and not long after, M began.. porn came a little later. I tried to stop once when I was dating, but it didn’t last and this was long before the NoFap site existed. I didn’t have sex before marriage, and proud of that. I was able to save my virginity for marriage (Bible principles). I once thought that when I got married, P and M would stop.. and I tried many times alone. Every relapse would being disappoint and feelings of worthlessness. I’m glad I can have the courage and freeness of speech to teach my son about the dangers of P and M... before he reaches that age. Before the cycle begins. And even if he gets caught up in it, he will know he can come to me for help, that it is possible to overcome the habit, and have someone who will lovingly listen and who understands the struggle. I’m now 33. This is the first time I feel free from the enslavement of P and M since I was a innocent child. I give all the credit to the God of the Bible (Psalm 83:18). I will get to day 100 and beyond. THIS IS THE WAY
I just realized you Ranked up, speak up You are a foundling now! *hands you a suit of basic Armor* “This one shows spirit! Reach day 30 and you’ll be a real Mandalorian”
Day 16 Had a really big urge last night it was really bad so I just forced myself to go to bed and take a rest. This morning, I feel like my feminine energy is over the top. Omg tomorrow I'm ranking up too! That's so cool
We are PROUD of you for your self control. You made a wise decision. I’m glad you reaping benefits from it.
I actually remember reaching day fifteen and realizing I had ranked up to a foundling but for some reason, it slipped my mind. Thanks!
wow me too choose to didnt have sex before mariage its a religious choice and proud of that too, although i didnt have a wife yet that's so good to hear that from you, but mind you these porn demon is still there waiting for us to trip, never let down your guard and im kinda accomplish my first mission here, so im the new Spirited Potential isnt it ? hehe -This is The Way-