Hi, So it's been about 100 days on Hardmode. No PMO at all. I'm almost cured of PIED, i think as i can think of my SO and get great boners which stay for a long time. Both of us are busy right now, so we haven't had sex yet, so I'm not sure whether I'll be able to get a boner and maintain it while having sex. But soon we will be free and since I've gone hardmode, we haven't had sex for a long time so my question is, if i orgasm while having sex with her, will that trigger my PIED back?
I suppose I meant that if you O alot (many times a day) there will come a point where you will not be able to maintain an erection hard enough to make love because of the refractory period. As you say this is not ED.
Has not done so with my husband. Hasn’t n’t had pied in 8 months. He good to go in bed... took him about 4 months clean for it to be ok.
Yeah i guess i don't have any option. Thanks! Well i read here that even after a long time of recovery and rebooting if you O too much then your dopamine recepters will be damaged again and PIED creeps back in. I guess there's only one awesome way to find out xD. Thank you! Nicee! Well i plan to be clean forever, anything sexual is just gonna be with my SO but i kinda wanted to see if I'm healed or not as i really feel like I've recovered. Thank you!
Yeah, I think some people to be a little too idealistic about the average man’s stamina. They expect that once they’ve rebooted they’ll ALWAYS be able to perform which is a bit unrealistic as even completely healthy men can have their negative days every once in a while. Heck, even male pornstars often have trouble performing. We’re just not being told that.
Having an orgasm while with a real woman will help to imprint your arousal template to that real woman. Having an orgasm while using a real woman as a masturbatory aid while you think about your favourite porn star will deepen your reliance on porn for orgasming and will contribute to solidifying your PIED. Tread carefully.
Well i can't see her as an object, i really love her. I always craved for the sexual connection so she won't be my masturbatory aid. Thank you for the heads up tho!
I am a huge believer that connected relational sex helps the brain to heal! Light on, eye contact, RELATING to each other!
Unless I am a freak of nature, I don't think that is true. Back of the napkin math... (first 10 years x 365 days x 0.3 orgasms) + (last 15 years x 365 days x 1.2 orgasms) = 7665 orgasms. IMO opinion, my orgasms have had the same intensity that whole time and maybe gotten more pleasurable in the last 10 years. Which makes me think that the true causes of PIED must be related too other factors (high blood pressure, being to rough during MO, genetics, etc.). I don't doubt the fact that abstaining from PMO fixes a lot of people's PIED, it just seems like there is more to the equation.
It should fix PIED but some people have ED that is caused by something else.If someones ED is not caused by porn then abstaining from porn wont fix it.A lot of people here think that porn causes their every problem.They use porn as a scapegoat.There is a lot of fake science on these forums and that's what gives NoFap a bad name in public eyes. P.S I think that porn and masturbation without porn is bad.I write this because I know some people will assume that I like porn.
It seems to be more pronounced and more difficult to repair in men who started high speed internet porn younger-as their sexuality was devloping AND before they had experience with real women.
Yes, exactly The factors which you stated are causes of physical ED, PIED is completely psychological...so the problem which arises even after recovering from PIED is that if you O too much with your partner then 1) those old neural pathways which got activated while watching porn might get activated and 2) you will suffer from the chaser effect which is to keep on Oing And it's this combination that MIGHT get your PIED back as your brain is flooded with Dopamine again, but plus points atleast they are meaningful and from the person you love
Focusing only on your wife for your needs will work. Use her for your porn. PIED will be gone. Worked for me. I quit everything cold turkey 1.5 years ago and my relationship with my wife is off the charts. I travel and can’t WAIT to see her. She knows it. NoFap was what I needed. Now even little tiny things she does or things she wears, I find sexy. Can’t help but want to be near her, hanging out. Going places and sex is fantastic. Also success with oral sex also. She is starting to like it. We have been married for 27 years.