hii, i am on day 31 when i woke up i find myself ohh shit nightfall this is the first time it happened to time, as i know that is normal for all who don't fap but as i am on recovery period trying to control my urges make myself busy as much as possible than, why nightfall occour ! What's the reason behind that ? how i know my pied cure ?
I abstain from PMO for 18 days today I had so many sexual thoughts and just peeked porn site (opened it and thought if I see I will PMO again) so closed it. After sleeping for 2 hrs at night I felt something is cool down there. It was nightfall, I felt so embarrassed. I have been seeing porn for 10 years and I have tried many attempts and fail. I was searching about the reason behind it, basically when there is too much stress or you have some sexual dreams you just ejaculate without masturbating while sleeping. For me there was no sexual dreams but I was too much stressed and depressed with marks from one of the subject. Body normal response is to go back to the habit, so I think in this case the body was trying to fight the stress by releasing dopamine which by PMO (in my case ejaculating while asleep). I want to leave this habit so much I am trying whatever I can but still failed. I guess nightfall is also kind of PMO as we ejaculate while sleeping.
Sorry i am a chinese,I can not understand what dose nightfall means?Does it mean "wet dream"? Could you please tell me?
In ancient China, there was a saying that one drop of sperm was equivalent to ten drops of blood. But in today's China, when the semen is full, we think it's inevitable to lose sperm.
Usually when ever I had nightfall, I just masturbate. This time I am not seeing porn or masturbate even after night fall.
Hello, Nightfall is a natural way of your body releasing the excess sperm and semen your body had. Since we have been masturbating a lot, our body is used to producing a lot of that, and now when you have stopped masturbating, your body is still producing the excess sperm and semen but it's not being released by you so it automatically comes out in the form of nightfall, it's completely harmless, isn't a relapse. Relax! As for your PIED, it takes 90days for an average porn abuser, so it depends on how long you watched porn from, what age did you start etc etc.
You can check the production of sperm is constant even if you masturbate or not. Releasing it from body takes energy not production of it.
Could you let me know staying away from pornography could fix all the issue what I have i had always regret about my past what i had done to myself, sometimes i'll think about when I had real sex about recovery I could be fine, there are so much tension I had created in my mind about my future , I just want to be a good human as normal , that porn totally distrub my brain when I see girs I had a felling hope i get a chance of sex, but I don't want anymore what I am now as of porn. I could not imagine how it's happen but i am trying day by day. Please tell me the best I can do to change my behaviour towards life future i.e each and everything aspects of life.
Dirty mind is normal bruh, but often is not normal too. I already over 200 days no P, the sexual toughts decreased alot, even tough sometimes still there(ofc, we are male afterall). Also, don't stress too much, phsycological side REALLY MATTERS. From your post, you could have perform anxiety if you always think like that. Sex is to be enjoyed, not to be stressed. You know i got PE from M because i always think too much about it(ohh shit i am gonna come) but while i enjoyed it, i can control when to O. You know? habit of PMO making the mindset that we need PMO, afterall it is the urge to sex, to reproduce. Firm your mindset too. The point is: ENJOY THE PROCESS, DONT WORRY TOO MUCH If sexual toughts randomly appeared just accept it, unless you want to do a vasectomy or getting a total amnesia ofc. But ofc we don't want it. P is just a mere illusion
Could You Please Look into this issue what i facing now a days:- https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?t...azy-does-not-want-to-anything-in-life.273847/
Happens to me too during day 30 no M. Because i often fap, but goes 30 days no M totally bad response from my body. phsycologist said its an emotional imbalance. Did you do nofap gradually or totally stopped it? If totally stopped it, its normal. Consider do a therapy with phsycologist man, don't consider yourself depression or any negative tought. Can relate because after do nofap, i am less motivated, but the motivation back after i get an O or i get someone to talk to(because i am still single i do it with M, ofc without P).