For our struggle is not with flesh and blood but with the principalities, with the powers, with the world rulers of this present darkness, with the evil spirits in the heavens.
GODDAMN IT I saw an image yesterday , nothing hardcore , it just popped up and didn't even M but my brain straight away O'ed. So well gotta reset. Day 1
I have been away for awhile and although I have been productive with my work,my mind wandered while I was away from this forum.In essence,we are all fighting something that many are addicted to like a drug, so this needs to be stamped out, because it damages our dopamine receptors and can destroy relationships and prevents us being the best person we can be for our loved ones.Enough is enough!Onwards!!
Day 37, need to hang on. The problem is that i keep looking up escorts which can lead me to fail this challange of no PMO.
I have the same problem. I became so sensitive (re-sensitized) to P, that I’d O even without M! I call it PO reboot, and reset my counter anyway. But after that, it gets easier.
Here's for y'all who get really down after a relapse. Happened to me yesterday I didn't want it to happen but it happened. I still got up at 6am made all my things and got on with the day even though you failed from the goal you set. Prevent relapse to happen but it OK if it happens. Think about this, I did 11 days no PMO now that could have been around 9 PMO's for those 11 days. But it wasn't so I am now 11 less PMO's closer to my goals. Let say you withstand 3 weeks a month and have a PMO and have 1 PMO after that before a new streak of 21 days so you would only be completeing 12 PMO's in a year. Now that is way less then someone who's hooked daily ! Remember when you fall it ok don't indulge into it just keep striving just like when you were on your streak with all yo benefits, with this mentality it easier to learn from your mistakes and get on with it to overcome !