I've also fallen into this trap and gave in after a female friend basically forced herself upon me the other night. I was so sad about it last night I cried and was thinking of hanging myself (I have mental health issues so it's not too strange although I haven't been suicidal for a few years). I think giving up PMO and becoming a husband will defeat these crappy sexual problems.
Van Houten, you are one odd dude. While there are many incels out there suicidal because they haven't even had their first kiss , here you are guilt ridden over apparently having no problems getting pussy when you want it.
I don't want it though, not until I'm married. If it happens before then I've already cheated on Jesus and technically cheated on my wife before even marrying her. EDIT: PMO is cheating too.
You may say that, but you didn't turn that gal down when she "jumped you" now did ya? lol I'm just giving you shit man.
There's a reason why the non-male members of Hillsong Australia congregation always seem to get my attention!
There is no way of becoming a true follower of Christ and not ending up with a wife and family at some point. Only a very few are called for the gift of celibacy. So it's impossible to end up in this fictional "friend zone" as a faithful Christian. Especially when you know that your competition Chad is a sinning non-believer. Lets face it: Jesus Christ is the most influential God became man, who has ever been to Earth, with billions of followers even after 2000 years. That's a great role model for any human.
The word "godliness" explains it all, wouldn't you prefer your choice of a partner to be "godly" - "like (a) God"
Oh man! I mean, if all of that is working so well for you, what are you doing here in the first place? I, once again, agree with 'get_it', in that this works for a "high-value" christian like a pastor but most likely not much or not any with a average guy since girls are not shaped to go after men with high virtue and low drama instead are being brainwashed thourougly to sought after all kinds of creeps to form relationships that makes nobody happy (atleast as far as I see it)
What I'm doing here is trying to quit porn, duh. What's with your perception of women? Are you a thirteen year old incel? Get out of this thread.
No, what's with your perception of women? Why would any guy who lay's out truth bombs be a 13-year old incel? I can write and reply in any thread I like to by the way.
Beating a decades old addiction, helping others beating an addiction. A faithful Christian man filled by the Holy Spirit is anything but an average guy. That's why women get attracted to such a man. And once that happened these women start to change themselves, get rid of their brainwashing and focus on faith and virtue as well. This is how it is designed. The Christian frame is a pretty powerful one.
Agreed, in my opinion, being Christian is not average in my mind or opinion, it is just women today usually would take a decade of trial and error before they even could be perceived as anything christian, question is, would you enjoy the ride or be exhausted and broken by the end of the tunnel.