Ugly people get laid, fact. I won't belabor the point but it's also a question of what you want. Actually taking initiative seems to be a big part of it, even today lots of women seems to want to be pursued and imo that limits their possibilities right off the bat.
No but your view on things is not clear. You see what you want to see. You want to be right and that keeps you from accepting the reality.
Lol. Some other thread a guy saying that HOCD was a homophobic agenda to destroy gay people and now this. What the hell happened to this forum. Lol But anyway, i can see that many ppl are trying to help this guy but the only thing he does is to block any kind of help by complaining which shows how bad and broken mindset he has. He is just toxic. But i have a question for you dude. What do you want on this forum? A formula? A miracle? You clearly dont want any help nor help yourself so what do you want? Troll? If you want sex go see an escort. Problem solved.