She may know already but hasn't said anything. Women are smart. Maybe this is bad advice but I wouldn't tell her, she could take it the wrong way. Keep working on your PM recovery. If you get into the upper echelons with 100+ days, for example, and feel confident that you are done with PM, maybe then you could tell her with confidence that you won't do that any more. Then again, I haven't been married in over 20 years so what the heck do I know?
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Good luck thekingfisher, you might be surprised how much your wife could help If you told her your issues with PM. She will be more mad if she finds out on her own that’s for sure.
When I feel overwhelmed, I look for an escape. That said, I also appreciate the problems of "idle hands." Looking for a good balanced life is key.
Checking in. Last four days were long days of work outside of the apartment. All good. I'm tired today but have things planned for this afternoon, so I should be able to have a productive morning and make two weeks.
Checking in, felt like a demi god yesterday, had extreme urges last night and this morning.... but I made it. Charging forward.... fuck porn.
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I sometimes wondered if she knew, she probably doesn't. I first thought it was because she's not that handy with computers, but than I thought that she isn't checking it because she trusts me and thinks i don't do such things. It makes me feel that I'm abusing the faith she has in me. I agree with you, people who get caught aren't really sorry about what they did, their just sorry they got caught. I think it depends a bit on your partner's personality if it's a good idea to share it. I'm first planning to make it to a couple of months without and than tell her about the achievment and that I did it for her. I think that this way she would feel better about it as well.
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Thank you. I was 50 and fapping. The PMO has been my habit for as long as I can remember. I have tried breaking the cycle before but this is the first time I have joined a community for support. Finishing my second week, no porn, NoFap.
Welcome! We are in similar boat. Motivation and reading other's going through similar phases and the path towards no PM/PMO helps.