Yes, emotional flatline is proper shit. I am experiencing full power right now on this streak (my longest one)
And being addicted to PMO is like being a girl in an abusive relationship addicted to her toxic partner even tho he keeps beating her.
I prefer my metaphor.It illustrates the damages of PMO better + yours where it’s the woman who dominates the man is too dweebish/beta for me.
My point was to prove that men are victims too, irl. And this has nothing to do with "beta" or "alpha".
I was annoyed about what you said because I assumed you were a "whiteknight" but I get that I was wrong. Good, strong men can save this situation that we're in and I'm glad that you see that too!
If she's misusing him then why is he still with her? Why can't he stand up for himself? Dump her if she treats you like that. "He" could do better.
Just like @Mister Fire mentioned, where the girl is still in the relationship, even though the man treats her badly. The guy in my "scenario", wishes to stay even though the woman misuses him. Maybe because he loves her or wants the relationship to work ..I guess.